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    Hi

    We broke up last October after a huge fight. We just stopped talking until X-mas when I went beta and called her chased her for 5-6 days until New Years. She said she is done and can't guarantee if we ever get back together. Maybe some day in the future and a bunch of mixed signals.

    Immediatley went no contact. Heard through the grapevine she has a new boyfriend (possibly rebound or not). Haven't contacted her since at all.

    She has changed her phone number at the end of February (found out through someone). Don't know why because I haven't said a word in 2 months.

    I was planning on staying NC completely until/if she ever called me. But it seems like there is no hope and it's toast. To be honest this all seems like a mind game to me, but I don't wanna live on false hope.

    fark One-itis! I'm more or less healed from the break up but just shocked that she went through it. We were on for 5 years.

    PS. I ignored her on her birthday too lol I have a feeling this is some sick fucking mind game - her male friend at the moment has "never give up on someone you think about everyday" in his IM status... weirdo's I tell ya. All in all I'm continuing to move on. Not putting too much stock in the hope and I refuse to chase anyone.

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    Default Re: Failed?

    Most everyone goes through sore feelings after a break up. It's a natural reaction to loss. There's a mourning period that can last up to two years, and sometimes never completely goes away. We just learn how to manage w/out giving in to it.

    Realize that life goes on, on life's terms! You can't change what others do, only how you react to them. Be good to yourself. You're a good person. Life is waiting for you, so go out and live it up! The only failure is not trying.
    Carpe diem!

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    Thanks dude for the quick reply. You are right and I know this. It's just saddening that someone who claimed that they would love you forever no matter what flakes on you. But that's just the way the game goes. It was my first and they say it always stings the most. i wasn't hers so maybe that's why she was able to move on so quick.

    Either way I've lost 40 lbs of pure fat since this happened and look better than ever. Her loss (alpha thinking). I am headed on vacation this week to the Dominican for Spring Break... Hoping to get some serious actions and phone numbers there.

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    Hey man ive gone (still am) through the same situation as you, but here's a snippet of something a friend of mine sent me one day, really helped

    If you consider the person you were prior to the relationship and the sort of person you are now and then envision the person you could become. If the person you could become exceeds who you were when you started dating this person then self improvement will allow you to get a better partner next time. I found that friends who improved whilst with their partners were able to instantly “upgrade” as soon as their relationships ended. Whether this was improving their physique, their general niceness or their financial well being they often had 2-3 other people who were straight away keen. These people got over their break ups instantaneously as a result.

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    Quote Originally Posted by canuckkk View Post
    Hey man ive gone (still am) through the same situation as you, but here's a snippet of something a friend of mine sent me one day, really helped

    If you consider the person you were prior to the relationship and the sort of person you are now and then envision the person you could become. If the person you could become exceeds who you were when you started dating this person then self improvement will allow you to get a better partner next time. I found that friends who improved whilst with their partners were able to instantly “upgrade” as soon as their relationships ended. Whether this was improving their physique, their general niceness or their financial well being they often had 2-3 other people who were straight away keen. These people got over their break ups instantaneously as a result.
    Nice commentary. Also, for all you faggots that still care - realize this. This person left you. Wants nothing to do with you and you still want them in your life? They've probably already banged a few guys in the process.

    Get out there and start fucking... Like today I don't care at all because i bagged a HB9 shockingly lol.

    Keep the positive vibes flowing. And remember if she contacts, don't respond/answer


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