We broke up last October after a huge fight. We just stopped talking until X-mas when I went beta and called her chased her for 5-6 days until New Years. She said she is done and can't guarantee if we ever get back together. Maybe some day in the future and a bunch of mixed signals.
Immediatley went no contact. Heard through the grapevine she has a new boyfriend (possibly rebound or not). Haven't contacted her since at all.
She has changed her phone number at the end of February (found out through someone). Don't know why because I haven't said a word in 2 months.
I was planning on staying NC completely until/if she ever called me. But it seems like there is no hope and it's toast. To be honest this all seems like a mind game to me, but I don't wanna live on false hope.
fark One-itis! I'm more or less healed from the break up but just shocked that she went through it. We were on for 5 years.
PS. I ignored her on her birthday too lol I have a feeling this is some sick fucking mind game - her male friend at the moment has "never give up on someone you think about everyday" in his IM status... weirdo's I tell ya. All in all I'm continuing to move on. Not putting too much stock in the hope and I refuse to chase anyone.