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    Sparta is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Why is by ex being such a b!tch!

    Ok, so if you read my previous threads...my ex cheated on me and left for some guy. She invited me out to catch her cheating and basically said F you. We work together and I was away for a month at the time. This was 3 months ago.

    Now, over time i externally let it all go and acted like i didnt care even though she had spread lots of things. I started to ignore her until the Tension was too high so i sat her down and had a chat. She admitted it was all a front and she hadnt been happy blah blah blah. We agreed to be amicable.

    It all seemed good yet she is now continuing to openly talk about this guy when there is no need right in front of me and someone let slip during some banter something that's actually quite private between the 2 of us and hugely disrespectful for her to have even told anyone else.

    Im stuggling to keep up a friendly front with her like this so have turned back into a hostile ignoring of all converstaion with her.

    Its like she's constantly playing the bitch/attention card because when I reject her, she is being rejected from the social group as I have a greater influence, being nice allows her back in.

    Why is she doing this? How should I act?? Bear in mind we work together

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    canuckkk is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Why is by ex being such a b!tch!

    I hear where your coming from, my ex left me and rebounded with some beta scrub instantly, yet after all was said and done with me being the victim and her the perpetrator per se, my ex still spineless and is b!tchy/hostile toward me in the odd times we cross paths after agreeing to put our differences aside.

    Personally I would want to know as well why ex's are like that, since in our cases they brought the conflict upon themselves by choosing to leave us. I guess by us being the better men, and being successful really gets to them haha, women...

    My advice would be to brush it off, show how alpha you are inside and out by not letting it phase you. You should consider removing the title of "friend" from her as its clear you dont need anyone so disrespectful and belittling to you. Avoid being around her at work if possible, because you dont need to be put into a situation hearing those things from your ex.

    If it continues let her know one last time it would be nice she could keep it to her self and not in front of you (without coming off as phased or rude) and if she doesn't, act as if she never spoke a word at all and avoid anything that feeds that conversation. Be the awesome being you've molded yourself to be, and take pride knowing you're twice the person your ex will ever be. Even though it may feel nasty inside to you, try your best in keeping it inside and not showing signs of hurt. In short both our ex's sound like b!tches just shake it off and continue on being top dog


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