Ok, so if you read my previous threads...my ex cheated on me and left for some guy. She invited me out to catch her cheating and basically said F you. We work together and I was away for a month at the time. This was 3 months ago.
Now, over time i externally let it all go and acted like i didnt care even though she had spread lots of things. I started to ignore her until the Tension was too high so i sat her down and had a chat. She admitted it was all a front and she hadnt been happy blah blah blah. We agreed to be amicable.
It all seemed good yet she is now continuing to openly talk about this guy when there is no need right in front of me and someone let slip during some banter something that's actually quite private between the 2 of us and hugely disrespectful for her to have even told anyone else.
Im stuggling to keep up a friendly front with her like this so have turned back into a hostile ignoring of all converstaion with her.
Its like she's constantly playing the bitch/attention card because when I reject her, she is being rejected from the social group as I have a greater influence, being nice allows her back in.
Why is she doing this? How should I act?? Bear in mind we work together