I've posted lot of threads about the same woman here. We've been finished for almost two months and NC by phone for 16 days now. I met her and her new exclusive boyfriend at the party last weekend. All was good, no drama. Well, I made out with her friend who jumped me in front of her. Not sure if that counts lol.
I was reading my old threads and realized how many farking mistakes I made. I acted clingy, needy and outright childish at times. I can only blame myself how things turned out. I've been dating other girls since and I'm not pursuing her. She knows I've been dating.
Now, I was thinking about sending a text something like:
"I was thinking lately and realized that a lot of things were handled poorly. Many mistakes were made but I learnt from them. Wish you all the best!"
Is this beta? Is there anything to gain or should I just stick with the NC?
edit: Forgot to mention that we share an extended social circle and I'm going to be seeing her occasionally which is quite the reason for this post.