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    canuckkk is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Found old pictures of ex and I

    Hey guys was going through my email cleaning the junk mail and happened to come across the very first photos my ex and I took when we first started dating. Sort of brought back nice memories and I didnt end up deleting them.

    I was wondering, my ex and I havnt spoken in a good 3 months now, and this school semester is just about done in a few weeks. I take it she will depart back home for 4 months, and I was thinking of messaging her and giving her the photos since these may be the last and only photo's of us existing. Plus it would be a civil way to re-engage contact just before she leaves my city for 4 months with little harm.

    OR besides not sending / contacting her at all, I could send them to her randomly during the summer break since she is going to be at home majority of the time and working full time (she lacks a social life back in her city) that way she would engage more interestingly at them while having nothing better to do at home. She does have a new guy she claims to be in a "casual relationship" with and has been with him since we have broken up. Im not trying to get her back but thought id pass on a friendly gesture to someone I once called a friend, lemme know what you guys think!

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    Default Re: Found old pictures of ex and I

    Why send the picture at all if you are not trying to get her back. By not deleting and sending them to her randomly shows you still having feelings for her and would like a another shot. You also said that if you send them to her when she arrives in her hometown she will be more susceptible and responsive to them. This all sounds like you want her to respond and start feeling the same way you do but this can only lead to her rejecting you or going back to the way things were before you two broke up and this displays desperation and neediness. I would say think of an alternative to sending pictures of you two to invoke a response and which would show alpha characteristics. Anything less than this will get you to the friendzone or no response. Read some of the articles and post on the site about texting exs or friends you have not seen in a long time to get a positive response. Good luck man!

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    Default Re: Found old pictures of ex and I

    chances are, just by viewing the photo's today brought back repressed emotions, and I may have thought of this on a whim. I dont think ill end up sending the photos and end up looking needy. I once read on a random post, we should act like "samurai's and never be the first to attack" so ill continue on without saying a word, maybe in a few months if I havnt found a new girl Ill shoot my ex a text to tickle my fancy. Thanks for the input!


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