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    CriticalRap is offline PUA in Training
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    Post Thanking my ex in a letter

    So I've writen my ex a letter about how her leaving me was the drive I needed to get my act together and figured I would share it with you guys.

    Planning on going into her work and giving her it, just being alpha and confident as well.


    Firstly, I know what you're thinking. Why did he write me a letter and not just text me? Because I'm a classy motherfucker, that's why!

    But seriously, I wanted to say thank you, so much.

    Before we met, I wasn't happy for a long time and you messaged me on Facebook and changed that, for the first time in a long time, I cared about something and was happy.
    It took losing you for me to completely break and realize that I had to change my ways. For the first day I was so angry at myself at the way I had treated you and everything else in my life. I felt like a pathetic, worthless, bellend. But I realized
    that hating myself didn't accomplish anything, so instead I decided that from now on I will work towards bettering myself in every way I can.

    I'm gaining weight, getting a sleeve tattoo, been taking way more hours at work and I've even started reading a book! I know, it must sound crazy, me, reading.

    But it's all thanks to you and that's why I feel like I owe you and like I let you down. I honestly couldn't wish you anything but happiness and all the best in life. But one thing
    I still can't forgive myself for is saying I didn't want you to do a photo shoot with those photographers. Looking back now it was selfish and childish of me.
    (Exs name here), you are a beautiful young women, you would make such a good model. I held you back, and I hate that cause I know you'd of enjoyed doing it and the shoot would have looked amazing.

    I'm so sorry for that, if I could go back in time I wouldn't change a thing though because it's a lesson that I had to learn. But I would punch myself in the dick for being such a giant douche.

    What I'm trying to say (ex's name here) is that you are a great, na fuck that, amazing girl with so much to offer. You're smart, funny and beautiful, the tripple threat!

    You deserve to be happy, you deserve better than what I was. Just know that no matter what, I'm always here for you to support you, as your friend, the way i should have been to begin with.

    Again, thank you, you made me a better person and I will always be grateful for that, weather we remain friends or not.

    Critical x

    P.s If you hadn't already guessed I didn't come in for cookies

    P.p.s I sprayed the page with boss for you

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    Default Re: Thanking my ex in a letter

    I had the same idea but I wouldn't go as far as actually giving it to her. It's good that you're letting everything out though, writing a letter without sending it to your ex is one of the best ways to start getting over her. I was also looking at getting tattoos but don't go through with it unless you're 10000% sure you want to do it without trying to impress your ex. Hope it helps buddy, just stick to NC and do your thing on the down low.

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    Default Re: Thanking my ex in a letter

    great letter, but along the lines of "You deserve to be happy, you deserve better than what I was" sort of bugs me. Dont degrade yourself just because things didn't workout! I feel by saying that you are still keeping a woman on a pedestal whether your want her back or not, maybe its something you might want to re-word. We are all top dogs, and by no means should we tell the previous women in our lives that we were not up to par with them. Just my two cents, but alongside that its a nice letter.

    Out of curiosity, what are you thoughts on meeting your ex in person about this, would it bring a better experience of sending the message across if you happen to meet up in person and explain this to your ex? But if emotions are still raw in your ex, or there are timing constraints, like exams or something similar then a letter would be great

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    Default Re: Thanking my ex in a letter

    Hey Critical,

    My advice would be not to send the letter. Keep those thoughts to yourself and focus on moving on.

    Apart from the minor type 'weather' i/o 'whether' it is a decent enough letter. However, to me the message this sends is that you are happy being her friend. Fark that bro - she is your ex - you can't be friends with your ex until a lot of time has elapsed. Like a year.

    If this is all about closure, like you feel you owe her something - you don't. She dumped you remember and the sentiments expressed in your letter could/should have been dealt with at the time you broke-up. Presumably she never gave you that opportunity so do not massage her ego now - she has not earned that privilege.

    Do not re-open old wounds - at best you will end up being her friend. At worst, she will ignore you and you will feel like sh**.

    Let the break-up go, take time to let go and grieve properly and then see if she contacts you. If not, find someone else that appreciates the guy you have become (and are becoming).

    All the best.


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