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    bhawker is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Sending gift to ex

    Hi all. I have been doing a lot of reading on these forums and I have decided to create an account and see if I could get some advice.

    My ex broke up with me about a month ago and I want to get her back. For the most part, I have avoided all contact with her and have let her be. I know that she is scheduled to go in for a surgery at the end of this month and I was thinking about mailing her a good luck charm a couple days before the scheduled surgery.

    I was wondering if this was a good idea or if a simple text the day before would be better? If it's ok to send the gift, would sending it to her work be a problem? I do not have her new home address. Lastly, should I contact her after the surgery to see if she is ok or just let her be and see if she contacts me? I think I shouldn't contact her afterwards but I'm not totally sure on this. Any help would be appreciated.

    Thanks in advance

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    Learning The Ropes is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Sending gift to ex

    Hey man,

    If she is in for something pretty serious, by all means do the decent thing and wish her all the best. But do not start contacting her again regularly - a one-off good luck message is enough.

    But do not give her a gift - with the best will in the World she is your ex so wish her all the best and move on.

    A month is way too soon - give it like 6 or 12 months and see if you still like her. I bet you don't. In the meantime, focus on NC and becoming the man you want to be.

    All the best.

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    bhawker is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Sending gift to ex

    You're right it's time to move on and get myself back to normal. Thanks for the advice.


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