Hi all. I have been doing a lot of reading on these forums and I have decided to create an account and see if I could get some advice.
My ex broke up with me about a month ago and I want to get her back. For the most part, I have avoided all contact with her and have let her be. I know that she is scheduled to go in for a surgery at the end of this month and I was thinking about mailing her a good luck charm a couple days before the scheduled surgery.
I was wondering if this was a good idea or if a simple text the day before would be better? If it's ok to send the gift, would sending it to her work be a problem? I do not have her new home address. Lastly, should I contact her after the surgery to see if she is ok or just let her be and see if she contacts me? I think I shouldn't contact her afterwards but I'm not totally sure on this. Any help would be appreciated.
Thanks in advance