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    Default broke NC and here's the resuly

    Hey guys, fun update for everyone. So with the university year ending and a 4 months summer break upon its way, I thought to break NC and hit up my ex, as I saw it as a win-win situation. She responds nicely and warm, that's progress, she responds cold and b!thcy, oh well shes leaving to go away for 4 months anyways.

    The result was cold and b!tchy, surprise surprise! We had broken up 6 months ago, and I had ran into her a couple of times on campus only to say a quick "hello, or hows its going?" and never strike up a conversation.

    I had been studying last night cramming for finals, as I noticed she was sitting near by in the library for the whole day (her new bf was there but I didnt care as he's phytoplankton, and im a great white shark). I went and greeted them, only to be shunned from my ex but the bf was welcoming of me, a few hours past and my ex leaves with her bf with not even a simple good bye. Which I was disappointed in, as a span of 6 months should have cooled her afterburners and she should have been more civil as most people would agree.. Clearly wasnt the case..

    I had deiced to break the NC and clear the waters once and for all with this stubborn ex of mine, as I politely texted her saying that, if she had any problems with me, she shouldn't be afraid to address them directly with me, and that if she was sincere on what we had established back in December of being civil towards each other and her viewing me as a great person, that she would work on her bitterness for me (she was the person to dump me). Essentially I brought up what she told me face to face and asked her if she really meant it or it was just a ploy to make me feel better in the moment.

    That resulted in her somewhat blowing up and stating for me to "leave her alone" that she is studying and doesn't want to be contacted, and that "I am her ex and she doesn't want to talk to me". Which made me laugh but also feel a great sense of disappointment as nothing has changed within her as I was expecting. Im not shaken by this, she isnt ready to be in touch with me and I left the conversation by apologizing for contacting her and hope she enjoys her summer. Cheers to 4 months of more NC for her!

    All I wanted to know by starting this contact.. was why she kept this massive "b!tch" shield up towards me since she left me, while I undergone and recovered from a somewhat serious liver infection, while I had a family death from the start of the break up and 6 months till now when she didnt have to. Was fishing for why she wouldnt show me any remorse essentially after she felt bad previously when those things occurred. If I knew, I would have the answers to all life's questions lol

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    Default Re: broke NC and here's the resuly

    She put up the Bitch Shield because she's moved on and you obviously haven't. Which It doesn't seem like you have as much as you think. You post about this almost once a week it seems. Maybe take some time off from the game, sit back with the bros and drink some/party and get over this bitch. She obviously has no feelings towards you, which I know sucks, but get your head out of your ass. She isn't worth it and shes showing you right now. Move on and let it go.

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    Default Re: broke NC and here's the resuly

    You may be right, this was my one-itis so chances are you have a valid point here. But I think by her responding that way firmly pushed me into the right direction of moving on properly and opening my eyes 110%. This summer break of body building and traveling is just what I need. Cheers!

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    Default Re: broke NC and here's the resuly

    Quote Originally Posted by monoposto View Post
    She put up the Bitch Shield because she's moved on and you obviously haven't. Which It doesn't seem like you have as much as you think. You post about this almost once a week it seems. Maybe take some time off from the game, sit back with the bros and drink some/party and get over this bitch. She obviously has no feelings towards you, which I know sucks, but get your head out of your ass. She isn't worth it and shes showing you right now. Move on and let it go.
    Disagree. If she had no feelings she wouldn't have reacted the way she did. But I do agree that canuckk isn't over her and that he should probably stay in NC anyways.
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    Default Re: broke NC and here's the resuly

    Quote Originally Posted by TheDuke View Post
    Disagree. If she had no feelings she wouldn't have reacted the way she did. But I do agree that canuckk isn't over her and that he should probably stay in NC anyways.
    I wanted to bring that point up, as a couple of my buddies felt the same way. If she was truly moved on and happy why be such a bitch to me? I honestly made myself so easy to love and kept distant during NC leading up to this. Anyways, thats why I initated the contact to find out why she was being so hostile towards me and if there was anything I could do to fix it for the future. She didnt give me that chance and to hell with her. What is said and done is in the past. Life moves on and im about to get shredded and have a great summer without this b!tchy ex. Thanks for the input guys!

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    Default Re: broke NC and here's the resuly

    Hmm, if she's being a bitch then I would say she's still has felling for you, but rather than face them she'd rather just be pissed at you.

    The next time you see her, if she still a bitch to you just walk away. As you do say something like "Wow, would have thought you'd be past this childish shit by now" it'll reaaaaaaaaaallly piss her off, but it shows you aren't taking her shit, and she's being immature about the situation, not you.

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    Default Re: broke NC and here's the resuly

    Quote Originally Posted by CriticalRap View Post
    Hmm, if she's being a bitch then I would say she's still has felling for you, but rather than face them she'd rather just be pissed at you.

    The next time you see her, if she still a bitch to you just walk away. As you do say something like "Wow, would have thought you'd be past this childish sh1t by now" it'll reaaaaaaaaaallly piss her off, but it shows you aren't taking her sh1t, and she's being immature about the situation, not you.
    Nope, wrong. I'm not even going to pussy foot around being politcal about this. You should say nothing. Saying something shows your emotionally involved. So from now on, SAY NOTHING! You've given her a chance to cross the bridge, and she didn't. There's nothing else you can do except move on. If she comes back, she comes back.
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