A girl who I like for a long time told me she liked me too but nothing happened due to her going to Australia for a year. This was end of 2011.
She came back last week and I saw her for the first time last Saturday night.
My game plan before meeting her was to avoid slipping into my old AFC needy ways and being clingy, so she would want me. This was successful for the first half of the night.
At the start of the night she even gave me Kino (stroking my left arm while talking to me). We wound up talking alone a couple of times alone but then the 3rd time she gave me a bit of cold shoulder so I slipped into an AFC form for the night. I was a bit disappointed in myself for being like that.
But, when I went to cuddle her to say goodnight, she pulled me hard into her and squeezed my back into her. We embraced for a while then she kissed my neck while embracing me. When she pulled her arms away slowly she felt my chest and was like 'oohhh' (I lost 40 to 50 pounds since i saw her and have bulked a bit). I had a brain fart and stuttered to say 'well, I'm... going now'. She had a cheeky smile on her 'which seemed to be quite seductive'.
I ended up walking half way home just to replay everything and thinking 'what the hell was that??'.
She text me the next morning to apologize for how she was being off with me initially then suggested we catch up over a coffee sometime.
Am I being led on or should I presume that coffee sometime is a date? Shes never suggested we just hang out since I have known her for a few years.
I text her back Sunday to say lets do it but haven't heard anything since
Please advise I'm a newbie to PUA and to reading into signals