Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 4 of 4
  1. #1
    Fizzedine is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 83, Level: 1
    Level completed: 66%, Points required for next Level: 17
    Overall activity: 16.7%
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    Dublin
    Posts
    11
    Points
    83
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    9

    Default Mixed signals from a girl I have had history with

    Hey guys

    A girl who I like for a long time told me she liked me too but nothing happened due to her going to Australia for a year. This was end of 2011.

    She came back last week and I saw her for the first time last Saturday night.
    My game plan before meeting her was to avoid slipping into my old AFC needy ways and being clingy, so she would want me. This was successful for the first half of the night.

    At the start of the night she even gave me Kino (stroking my left arm while talking to me). We wound up talking alone a couple of times alone but then the 3rd time she gave me a bit of cold shoulder so I slipped into an AFC form for the night. I was a bit disappointed in myself for being like that.

    But, when I went to cuddle her to say goodnight, she pulled me hard into her and squeezed my back into her. We embraced for a while then she kissed my neck while embracing me. When she pulled her arms away slowly she felt my chest and was like 'oohhh' (I lost 40 to 50 pounds since i saw her and have bulked a bit). I had a brain fart and stuttered to say 'well, I'm... going now'. She had a cheeky smile on her 'which seemed to be quite seductive'.

    I ended up walking half way home just to replay everything and thinking 'what the hell was that??'.
    She text me the next morning to apologize for how she was being off with me initially then suggested we catch up over a coffee sometime.

    Am I being led on or should I presume that coffee sometime is a date? Shes never suggested we just hang out since I have known her for a few years.
    I text her back Sunday to say lets do it but haven't heard anything since

    Please advise I'm a newbie to PUA and to reading into signals

  2. #2
    Fizzedine is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 83, Level: 1
    Level completed: 66%, Points required for next Level: 17
    Overall activity: 16.7%
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    Dublin
    Posts
    11
    Points
    83
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    9

    Default Re: Mixed signals from a girl I have had history with

    Guys I really need advice
    I know this sounds like a stupid dilemma

  3. #3
    CriticalRap is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 328, Level: 6
    Level completed: 56%, Points required for next Level: 22
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered250 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Posts
    58
    Points
    328
    Level
    6
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    19

    Default Re: Mixed signals from a girl I have had history with

    Chillllll buddy.

    Less of this sad face stuff alright? Makes you seem needy to me, jesus.

    Annyyyyway, as for your sitch it's sounding good, you should have pressed forward when you had the chance instead of bailing but no worries.

    If she still hasn't replied, give her a call some time, keep it short, casual and at the end say something like "how about that coffee, saturday, 2 at blablabla?"

  4. #4
    Fizzedine is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 83, Level: 1
    Level completed: 66%, Points required for next Level: 17
    Overall activity: 16.7%
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Location
    Dublin
    Posts
    11
    Points
    83
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    9

    Default Re: Mixed signals from a girl I have had history with

    thanks man. sorry but you probably guess i really like this girl lol.
    I was thinking a week before calling her? shes only been back a week so she may want time to settle herself back.
    what you think?

    thanks again man


Similar Threads

  1. Girl sending mixed signals!
    By Onthereg in forum General Questions
    Replies: 14
    Last Thread: 01-18-2016, 12:41 PM
  2. Need help with girl throwing mixed signals
    By Blackstone90 in forum General Questions
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 04-26-2014, 06:00 AM
  3. How to deal with this girl showing mixed signals
    By aviator in forum General Questions
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 04-05-2013, 09:23 AM
  4. Receiving mixed signals from girl. She is keen but not enough!
    By independence13 in forum General Questions
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 07-21-2012, 11:58 PM
  5. getting mixed signals from girl in my class
    By keepurcool in forum General Questions
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 10-22-2011, 11:04 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com