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    Default My ex is being cheated on

    My first GF of 4 months (broke my heart) moved on quite fast, started dating another guy 1 month after our breakup. They're together for like a year now and it seems that the girl is madly in love with that guy.

    I have made a lot of improvements on myself since then (putting on muscle, my social circle, friends, girls, etc. just being more alpha).

    I have initiated hardcore no contact about 10 months ago, and haven't broken it since then. She contacted me through text a few months ago, but I didn't reply. She drunk called me once since then, I picked up my phone but didn't keep the convo for more than 2 minutes. Next day she apologised, we haven't talked after that, I just got some FB likes (she does that regularly).

    Now some of my friends are on speaking terms with this girl and his BF. He cheated her on at least once, she doesn't know anything about it, she is posting pictures of her and her BF on facebook etc. It disturbs me.

    I would like them to break up, or at least her to know that she is being cheated on. I find this guy disgusting.

    Thanks for the advices!

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    Default Re: My ex is being cheated on

    If you think that by telling her you're being the good guy that's saving her....you're not. Not only will you associate yourself in her eyes as "The guy who told her", but you'll be having everyone wonder why you even bothered to get into her business. You aren't that close.

    She's a big girl and can handle herself. She has close friends and family to help her through this so it's not your place. People get cheated on all the time. Doesn't give us the right to just jump into their business. Just make sure your the guy that becomes her escape. So when she finds out and breaks up with him, you'll be the guy to help her forget her troubles and have fun with her by NOT reminding her of her ex.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: My ex is being cheated on

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    If you think that by telling her you're being the good guy that's saving her....you're not. Not only will you associate yourself in her eyes as "The guy who told her", but you'll be having everyone wonder why you even bothered to get into her business. You aren't that close.

    She's a big girl and can handle herself. She has close friends and family to help her through this so it's not your place. People get cheated on all the time. Doesn't give us the right to just jump into their business. Just make sure your the guy that becomes her escape. So when she finds out and breaks up with him, you'll be the guy to help her forget her troubles and have fun with her by NOT reminding her of her ex.
    I never wanted to tell her that she is being cheated on, I know what consequences would that mean for me. Personally I need to stay away from this, but what I see is that my ex is totally unaware that she is being cheated on, she is posting <3 -s on her boyfriends facebook wall, as if they were the dream couple, she probably will move to a university in the country with her boyfriend because of him (like living together).

    I have a feeling that she is never going to know that she is dating a cheater and at the moment, she wants to live the rest of her life with him.

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    Default Re: My ex is being cheated on

    I'm getting a little philosophical, but it's her path. Let's say you did decide to tell her. That doesn't mean she'll believe you. And even if she did, it doesn't guarantee she'll leave him. It's best to leave it to her close friends and family.

    So accept that she has made her choice and it will eventually come to light when she's ready. You're obviously not the only one that knows this. Someone will come forward.
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