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    K95
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    Default Next step dealing with potential playerette?

    This will probably be a Long message but could use some help because I'm currently stressing so any advice would be appreciated.... I met this girl on eharmony and talked for like 3 weeks and eventually met up.... After that we she would come over my apartment or I'd pick her up at her house because she has an apartment 45 min away at school and she would die to her parents where's I get her. After about two weeks I had sex with her and ive dated tons of girls with no feeling for but this one really had me liking her and thinking about her constantly. She's 22 and just graduating college so we would talk non stop and if see her 2 times a week where would basically have sex and she would either stay and leave early or leave that night because of classes and what not. This kept up for few weeks and she would always text me how horny she was and take pics of herself and send them so I assumed this was bad news so I told her I didnt want to be exclusive when she asked me if we were dating. Her reply was that she's never felt this way before and feels bad having sex unless she's In a relationship an she's only had two previous ones to me. She lived with her ex for 3 years and he still calls her because she asks me what he should do about it. I still told her I didn't want to date yet because didnt really know her well enough and after another month I caved because she seemed so interested. After 3 moths I still havnt met any of her friends even if I asked her why I couldn't hang out with them And she seemed to always have an excuse. We got in a fight about it and I broke up with her because I felt something funny was going on because also she would never invite me to her apartment because she said her ex puntced a hole in the wall and guys weren't allowed there anymore. Well anyways she texted me 3 days later saying that I'm over exaggerating and she really doesn't want to break up and misses me too much. The next three weeks she told me to e patient because she was busy with school so I saw her 2 times but we talked non stop she always initiated it. She would cancel her plans last minute with me sometimes and not answer my calls and explain why so I dumped her again assuming the worst. 3 days later she said she had to e with me and she was so stressed and to be patient. So I was......the last month i would see her one a week always her coming to me an whenever we had sex she was in pain said she had cysts or some bullshit.... She stopped sending me texts about being horny but still always said how much she liked me. Last weekend we were supposed to hang out sat night but she said she was too tired last minute and would come first thin in the morning so I told her she was Inconsiderate and he said I was rude to say that and we should just end it....I tried calling her but she didn't answer and assumed it was done.... Next day at noon she called me and asked what was up and I asked why he exploded last night and she said she was caught off guard and was just joking and wondering hat I was doing. I told her I could hang out and she said she would text me when homework was done. She sent me two other texts after one of her with her dog outside wishing I was there and another. Fortune cookie from lunch saying how happy she was in love or some bullshit. 600 rolls around no response about hanging out so I asked he what was up and she said she was going to dinner an could t meet up?? About 7 sent me a text saying she can't hang out tonight because she's too stressed but maybe one night this week even though last week she told me I could sty with her all week not at her apartment but her parents because they were gone and couldn't wait to be with me everynight. I told her good luck with things because I was pissed and she responded what do u mean and then quickly rattled off a text saying I should see other people at the same time my message of telling we she is mean and doesn't treat me with respect and we shouldn't talk until u get your act together. She said she agreed... I didn't respond and next morning sent me a pic of something I left there saying it made her think of me and next message said dont think you didn't mean anything to me.... I havnt responded and that was two days ago... My question is that I miss her a lot because first girl in 20 I've had feelings for and if I should wait her out or contact her? Or has she met someone else and could care less? What is happening in your guys opinion? Also I finally met her dad an he knew all about me....

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    Default Re: Next step dealing with potential playerette?

    For me the girl is showing a lot of huge red flags, hard to say what's going on but you're definitely not getting the full story. That could be anything, a secret life, emotional issues, anything... whatever it is it my advice is to drop and run, unless you like drama, or if you can't do that then definitely go and meet some other people so you aren't so focused on this girl who sounds like she wont do anything but give you headaches.
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    Default Re: Next step dealing with potential playerette?

    But I I did want drama and see her again was the final responses meaning I will hear from her again or she waiting for me to contact her


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