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    Default need help with my ex girlfriend.. very complicated situation need advice

    Okay so where to even begin... Well i recently broke up with my ex of 6 months, however weve been close for 4 yrs. This was about 3 months ago. The break up happened bc of some baby mama drama and my ex not wanting to deal with it anymore, it started out with her just needing some space. The initial break up wasnt the bad part, it was when i started to think about it more and more. 2-3 weeks pass with no contact and then one day i drunk txted her telling her i missed her. she responded with idk what to say blah blah blah. then a couple days later during spring break she calls me drunk telling me about her day at the beach, about how she had been flashing her tits multiple times and kissing a couple guys. This is the part i messed up on... when she called me and told me this i shouldve said 'dont call me or talk to me' and just hung up, however what i did was stay on the phone with her and pretty much scold her on how she behaved. At the time i was on a serious case of one-itus and i pretty much let her walk on me with that one. This is where the sh1t hit the fan. I went out and got drunk that night and drunk called her bitching her out for what she had done. I told her i had hooked up with someone at the bar to try and make her jealous this just made things worse. she had me by the balls and she knew it. for the next couple weeks i did everything i could to make her jealous. we had multiple screaming matches on the phone and many long txts sent back and forth to each other. eventually i got her to understand why i was pissed off and why i had reacted the way i did, however the damage had already been done. I reacted to the situation very poorly but i had every right to be pissed off. Thats the meat of what happened between us. Its been about 1 1/2 months of no contact since the last time we've talked. I guess my question is what would be the best course of action? Il be coming home at the end of may and then off again early june to go back to work. i would like to see her then, mostly just to show her that im over the break up and have moved on. I love this girl even still, she was my high school sweet heart. But i get the feeling i should hold off and wait for her to initiate contact? I havent seen her since feburary and we broke up in the begining of march i think.

    What should I do People??

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    Default Re: need help with my ex girlfriend.. very complicated situation need advic

    Apologize and move on you may salvage the friendship but after her beach day story eff the whole relationship thing she wanted time to thing and what did she do go out and be lecherous. So .... Save the friendship if you wish be the man tell her you where just trying to make her jealous and stick her in the lets just be friends zone also explain how her drunken story of her flashing her boobs and kissing random guys was not cool and jus being very vindictive.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.

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    Default Re: need help with my ex girlfriend.. very complicated situation need advic

    Thanks for the reply. I realize it was just making it worse by chasing after her. Iv takin a step back and regathered my thoughts and now I'm a better person for it. I want her to realize that it's no longer bothering me and Iv moved on. Would it be wise to ask to see her at the end of may? Maybe just to tell her to be friends or whatever. Or should I wait till she initiates contact?

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    Default Re: need help with my ex girlfriend.. very complicated situation need advic

    Get it over with sooner rather than later, own up to it and get it over, done. It will help minimize any damage and show you are someone who takes responsibility above anyone else.

    Sooner the better then you are alpha, dhv to the max
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    Default Re: need help with my ex girlfriend.. very complicated situation need advic

    Good advice, thanks for the help

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    You are very welcome to it, keep head up. That alcohol does some nasty things.
    Learn to be a better person not a better player.


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