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    Supermex is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Married guy needs help. Want to win my wife back.

    I am currently in the military and I have been with my wife for four years. About a week ago she found out that two years ago I had been talking to other females trying to hook up with them. I told her that during that time in my life was very dark as she was pregnant with our son and I didn't know of I could be a good father, I was always broke so I didn't know If i could support us, plus all the other stress with military life. I found my escape through alcohol and while I was drunk I would Facebook message and text random chicks trying to hook up with them but the next day I would wake up like wtf? Really? I only did those things during those couple of months and I have never done them again. I would never cheat on her. Now she says the trust is gone and she hates my guts. We are currently not talking to each other. I was in a long distance relationship with her as she did not want to move to Japan with me. The last thing she said to me is that we should separate. I know she hates me now. Any advice would help a lot. Thank you

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    Default Re: Married guy needs help. Want to win my wife back.

    Hate to break this to you but you shouldn't have even given her that explanation.There is almost no coming back from this and your excuse about given up and hitting on girls wasn't really the best.you showed her the you would abandon her instead of stepping up, since you even thought she may leave you so you kinda opened your options.

    Don't get too hung up on her, marriages end and you have a whole lot ahead of you.Don't get me wrong but you hit on girls, gave up on her implicitly

    We are dealing with a huge dynamic over here. She may be emotionally available and you need to think of yourself.no amount of anything may get you in you need to let this one off for a bit.

    You must work more on your game and what you will do in the future.think a new woman you haven't cheated on at least done this to.She may even have a guy in mind already.trust me women have many guys wanting them.

    Your best option is to continue with your pursuit of other women whilst focusing on your life.if that is what you choose there are a ton of info here.you may update this thread.

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    Supermex is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Married guy needs help. Want to win my wife back.

    Thanks for the advice. It may have not been the one I wanted to hear but I'll take any good advice I can get. Thanks again.

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    Default Re: Married guy needs help. Want to win my wife back.

    Work on your self. Make yourself a better person in every walk of life. Get better game, hit the gym, groom yourself, dress well when you leave the house and talk to girls with your new skills that you acquire on this site.

    If you feel better about yourself then others will notice it too. Whatever you do, please don't chase her. If you chase her you will push her away even further.

    Eventually when your mutual friends see how well you are doing it will get back to her. She may possibly chase you at that time.

    Humans usually want what they can't get.

    Ever notice that a kid will kill to have a new toy at Christmas. A week later the kid doesn't want that toy. Why? When it wasn't available the thought of playing with and having that toy was always on their mind. They were chasing that feeling.

    One they got it the feeling went away and that toy went into the same pile as the other toys.

    Use push / pull . Learn when to pull and to push away.

    Good luck dude. Keep us posted on how you are doing.

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    Supermex is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Married guy needs help. Want to win my wife back.

    Thanks and will keep everyone posted!


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