I posted a similar question few days ago but nothing was answered so uhmm this is a little different than the previous one.
First of all me and my ex were in a long distance relationship and we broke up 1 year+ ago. I added her 1 month ago and everything was fine. Though I think it was fine but then i found out she's getting too comfortable with me and is putting me in the friendzone.
She told me she likes another guy and i got jealous which later on turned on ''I love him'' and she also said she would accept his marriage request if it weren't for her parents. She said she's gonna do it after she finishes college in few years. She only offered me friendship and i am now in the friendzone. She said I'm someone who is too important to her and she cares about me too much but it doesn't mean she sees me in a romantic way.
I did as some people instructed me and apologized for my behavior and told her I'm happy for her and i respect her decision.
She later on said that she's not the one who wants to marry but she won't tell him that....she finds it annoying and says why is there a need for marrying? So is a relationship like that really love? I questioned myself often about it and I was wondering if she only likes the attention she gets from that man even though she said she almost slept with him but couldn't get in the mood and ran away.She's moved on alright ...well the thing is she invited me this summer over her place and said she wanted to meet me few months ago but i didn't reply her mail on time. Her exact words are ''I gave up on loving you but not on you'' .She later on pulled back and said it would be like cheating if we met which only sounds like excuses to me but whatever.
So my question is how do I get out of this stupid friendzone and rise to be a potential boyfriend in her eyes instead of the pathetic beta that I am right now?