I've a strange ex situation, I need you guys opinion on.
I'd dated this girl for 3.5 years till last summer, where I attended to a school for a couple of months and then got work in another country (total of 8 months).
We agreed to depart and try out new things and then get back together when I would come back home.
In the mean time she found a guy who's very needy and emotional unstable, but never the less she was attached to this guy but broke it off after I came home.
The girl and I have been meeting 3 times to talk things over and mostly ended in sex.
Last time we got in a huge fight and we talked it over and poured out our feelings and she told me she loves me, but she can't be with me at the moment, because she wants to live the moment (party, be with others and drink a sh*t load of alcohol). After she told me that we did have sex (I can't turn down great sex) She then told me to call her anytime I needed a deed to be done.
The thing is; she and I have tons of history, a good group of common friends, her family sometimes ask how I am and stuff like that, and I am the person who knows her the best, but...
I can't take my mind of her and I want to get back together with her, but I see no way of doing so which fustrates me