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    sadwonderland is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Unhappy I was clingy and went too far.

    I love him more than anything. The connection i felt with him was so beautiful and real, and thats why i always want him so bad.

    In the past he has cheated, lied, and manipulated. I forgave him and he changed but i still harbored deep mental instabilities i could not satiate, which triggered arguments and made me clingy because i was SO afraid of him drifting away again, that it actually happens (we have broken up several times)

    Everytime after we argued he would shut off his phone for a long time which i freak out over and i end up calling and messaging obsessively. Then, when i finally get a hold of him we forget about it and stay together. Its a vicious cycle.

    After our most recent argument, he says he does not want to "reward" me anymore, and that he wouldnt have wanted to end things if only i had just learned to give him space

    I told him i would wait forever, and he said "if youre gonna wait then stop calling"

    Is all hope lost? Will he miss me and call back after I leave him be for a certain period of time?

    I actively try to seek mental help, but i dont trust psychiatrists and the like, and i especially dont want to have to resort to medication for my problems.

    I love him so much.... I cant believe I let our relationship be poisoned by all this.

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    HardRock is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I was clingy and went too far.

    Before i came here i was in love.i had made a huge mistake with a woman i like and it looked like there was nothing i could do.i went ahead and did one thing.i was getting indicators of interest on that same day.i went for it..some women have told me sometimes it gets scary and..but i almost never let the line go slack why?i use it as an opportunity to learn more about her etc.sometimes when a girl requires too much from a guy(attention) it may throw him offf a bit since he barley knows what to do sometimes which ultimately makes him beware of loosing her.this sometimes translates to anger which is then then directed towards the contact.some guys have this but its manged.everyone has their coping strategy.in other cases it could be their first time, on a woman like this.but trust me a woman who has fears and doubts about the relation will find herself hunting you til she is ok with some things it called industry standard and being smart.but some people never change.


    Is all hope lost? Will he miss me and call back after I leave him be for a certain period of time?
    you have to capture his attention.


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