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    dark.knight1985 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default do i have a second chance with her?

    After a big fight with my ex-girlfriend, and after i said really impolite words and yelling and doubting her and blaming her for things i thought was wrong, i went to no contact relationship with her for about 1 week

    yesterday, i wanted to apology, so i bought her flowers and wrote an apology/closure letter, and went to her home, she was upstairs in her room, she refused to speak with me, both her sister and mom told her to come down, but she refused.

    So i left the flowers and the letter, i apologize to her parents for making them doubt her when i told them she is dating a really bad guy, which i finally knew they are friends, and i went back home.

    1- why did she refused to face me and did not come down?
    2- will she read the letter? or she will throw it out?
    3- and the last thing, what can i do now? i feel humiliated

    i really love her and regret my bad behavior, i dont want to push her out of our "broken" relationship, but i sent that closure letter to show her that i just want her to be happy with her life. but i really need her next to me.

    please advice

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    Ra1d is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: do i have a second chance with her?

    1)Did you really expect her to come down with arms wide open after you insulted her ?It seems like your insults did their job and hurt her.

    2)She will read the letter,be sure about it.

    3)The best thing you can do in my opinion is leave her alone for some time,don't annoy her(don't call/text),if you told her in your letter that you want her to be happy with her life,you should give her time.

    After you given her time,try again,not over the phone.
    Only 1 on 1.

    It all comes down to if she still likes you or not.

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    dark.knight1985 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: do i have a second chance with her?

    Quote Originally Posted by Ra1d View Post
    1)Did you really expect her to come down with arms wide open after you insulted her ?It seems like your insults did their job and hurt her.

    2)She will read the letter,be sure about it.

    3)The best thing you can do in my opinion is leave her alone for some time,don't annoy her(don't call/text),if you told her in your letter that you want her to be happy with her life,you should give her time.

    After you given her time,try again,not over the phone.
    Only 1 on 1.

    It all comes down to if she still likes you or not.

    How much time are we talking about here?
    And what if she still dont want any contact with me?

    Ps: she has this status "when loving someone showing is better than telling but when stop loving someone telling is better than showing"

    What do you think?

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    Default Re: do i have a second chance with her?

    woah man first of all you made a bit of mistakes

    1- why did she refused to face me and did not come down?

    She did not want to see you.the whole her mum calling her was out of respect.you were acting like a wussy a bit here.girl does this, don't even show up anywhere.in a nutshell her blowing you off and you coming over was a bit too much for her.
    2- will she read the letter? or she will throw it out?
    Yep out of curiosity if it not emotionally charged or comes across as needy it may not have the desired effect.
    3- and the last thing, what can i do now? i feel humiliated
    This is not a bad thing move into building attraction with women.this girl doesn't deserve you.you are the prize.

    i really love her and regret my bad behavior, i dont want to push her out of our "broken" relationship, but i sent that closure letter to show her that i just want her to be happy with her life.
    if you are suspecting then it something you may have seen never apologize for that.its not a good practice to call her out though.the best thing to do is open your options.see her as you made a mistake but you are willing to get this side of your life handled.you will find some other girl later.as if she was for practice.even though she is not.i like the fact that you included she have a happy life.but yh.

    "when loving someone showing is better than telling but when stop loving someone telling is better than showing"

    hey man since you were able to get her attracted initially you could harness this a bit more into a skill.this is a huge indicator of disinterest in whom ever it may refer to. this means even though she was attracted she is not feeling it now.it can be triggered but its best in this situation to do the latter.

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    dark.knight1985 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: do i have a second chance with her?

    guys, i knew today that she is already dating another guy...
    any comments?

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    Default Re: do i have a second chance with her?

    Hmm freeze her out.go deep in the forums and sarge.think of yourself.something caused her action and quite frankly from your last post before this she started dating the guy already.don't be needy.at least you attracted her.work on this area of your life more.she may come around.but shake this off you for one week by going out if you may.

    if its hard for you rely on the material.don't ever contact her family or friends let them be.they can't mess with a girls decision quite frankly they care about her happiness more than anything else.if you could also point out things you think you may have done wrong.. on the other hand move off this one.you could have more of this as in options going for you.


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