here's my story; my girlfriend of 9 months went away to France, her home country and came back. When she came back she said she finally realized all the flaws I had the weekend she came back (we went out for one weekend and I accidentally ignored her when I was with my friends) and said I'm not in love with you anymore.
She said I was too messy disorganized immature dont know how to cook, ignoring her too much when im with friends, she said she was 24 more mature and I'm still an immature 23 year old who talks to his parents alot and doesnt like to travel. I said im working on those things.
She said you cant change those things and then she said we should break up. I countered and said give me a week I can change. She said don't change for me . I told her I didn't want to change for her I was planning on changing all along.
She said yeah w.e. I doubt this relationship will work but she said she might or might not come on Friday. So now I'm preparing for next friday. I'm going to clean my room learn to cook and then bring her over. How can u fall out of love so quickly wtf. Anyways whats the best plan to win her back. ?
Option 1: I say I have changed and then be like this week was super spiritual and I show her a clean room and cook and then take her out.
Option 2: I say I cant change and that I'm working on changing and then say this is me trying to change if you want keep me as an option or something else.
Any other options. Thanks for your help guys