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    basically i dumped my girlfriend out of anger not really analyzing the situation and now my ex best friend is dating her, turns out he was trying to sabotage my relationship the whole time taking advantage of my short temper hoping i'd break up with her while i was pissed off...

    well it happened...and then he told her a bunch of stuff that wasn't really true and she believed it so now she thinks im the worst person in the world and hes a saint

    i was her first love so i'm not sure how much that weighs in this situation

    they've been together two months (ish) i guess they lost their virginity to eachother ( both 18 year old with me being 19) so i'm guessing the emotional ties is going to be very hard to severe

    apparently she hates me, but every time my name is even brought up in conversation ( this is what i'm told atleats) she gets very defensive and pissed off and tells whoever brought me up not to talk about me. so im not sure if its because she actually hates me, or is just not over me yet

    i fucked up hardcoree and i'm not really too sure how to recover from this situation, yeah its oneitis but its whatever...shit happens iguess....

    any opinions/suggestions/concerns?

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    Default Re: farked up..is this salvagable or give up

    Quote Originally Posted by raine View Post
    basically i dumped my girlfriend out of anger not really analyzing the situation and now my ex best friend is dating her, turns out he was trying to sabotage my relationship the whole time taking advantage of my short temper hoping i'd break up with her while i was pissed off...
    Well to be honest it wasnt really hes fault. He played game just like you might have. Also are you sure you left your girlfriend out of no reason, there must have been something? Now when you see them together you get this feeling that you might have had that. Fuck that, if you had some legit reasons to leave her at time then itīs best this way.
    Quote Originally Posted by raine View Post
    well it happened...and then he told her a bunch of stuff that wasn't really true and she believed it so now she thinks im the worst person in the world and hes a saint
    Thatīs not basically bad thing. I donīt know what she have heard but if they involve girls itīs just dhv to you. One post about BF destroyer suggested to compliment and defend ex-bf. That way she dont have any feelings for him at all. When your friend is constantly trying to defend himself by mocking you he puts value to you and you become threat.

    These are just my thoughts, Iīm not yet expert
    Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth; oh nevermind; you will not
    understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded.
    But trust me, in 20 years you’ll look back at photos of yourself and
    recall in a way you can’t grasp now how much possibility lay before
    you and how fabulous you really looked….

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    Default Re: farked up..is this salvagable or give up

    I honestly have a very short temper, i don't even remember why i broke up with her because it was so insignificantly stupid...and he basically told her i had a bunch of side girls and cheated on her and what not when i never did

    i'm at a complete loss at what to do in this situation =\

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    Default Re: fucked up..is this salvagable or give up

    any other advice on what i should do next...?

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    Default Re: fucked up..is this salvagable or give up

    So you have no contact with this chick?
    Run into her at places? Give us more details bro. This is a game, and there is always a move you can make. Girls are predictable, if you push the right buttons things will happen.

    Tell me more about your breakup (what she said after, did she chase you a bit? etc. etc.)

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    Default Re: farked up..is this salvagable or give up

    Quote Originally Posted by Fuser View Post
    So you have no contact with this chick?
    Run into her at places? Give us more details bro. This is a game, and there is always a move you can make. Girls are predictable, if you push the right buttons things will happen.

    Tell me more about your breakup (what she said after, did she chase you a bit? etc. etc.)
    She hated me after, wanted nothing to do with me.

    i do see them all the time, she seems like she's becoming less and less hateful towards me each time i see her, but they are clung to eachother all the time so i cannot really make a move, and if i text her i feel like hell see it and it'll start a shitshow....

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    Default Re: fucked up..is this salvagable or give up

    New update - The ex and the boyfriend broke up, i heard she told him she "needed a break" but still loves him blah blah

    regardless, they are not together, and recently she started re-following me on instagram, and then unblocked me then re-added me on FB. If this isn't a hint then i don't really know WHAT is

    the problem is i don't know where to go from here,how to initiate conversation and re-engage her interest, any opinions would be much appreciated

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    Default Re: farked up..is this salvagable or give up

    nothing at all huh...no experienced PUA has ANY advice to offer? XD

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    Default Re: farked up..is this salvagable or give up

    Hmm.. Woah man..
    Depends on what you really want out of this.

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    Default Re: farked up..is this salvagable or give up

    I want My relationship back if possible


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