Previous thread posts and feedback helped me. Need some new advice.
41yr divorced male was broken up with by 43yr female with 10y/o child after 2 yr relationship about 6 months ago. I pursued for over 2 months with texts or calls every week or so. I finally listened to the feedback and went no contact over past 3 months.
Since then I've
* been doing cross-fit for 3 months
* One Night Stand with girl met on-line
* spent one month with another, ended it due to girl being nuts
* currently in a 2 month relationship with 33 yr old much hotter babe, crazy in bed, but quite in-mature and not a lot in common.
So all going well until my ex and i see each other at a red light in (what are the odds???) I didn't acknowledge or try to look.
I get a facebook message from her sister that night. She has a rental place and said the renter is moving out and asked if i need a place to stay. Said that my ex; her sister, mentioned i like it and her sister said saw me earlier that day at an intersection.
I replied the next day saying "hope all is well, set on housing and thanks for thinking of me. If you give me a price, I will check around". So far no response.
So it brought back all the old memories and that I want her back. I don't think its oneitis, I really want her back. Should i stay no contact and forget about her or try to initiate?
I've got a bunch of pictures of her, her dog(which died recently), keys to her house, etc... that I've thought about sending her, struggling as i feel moving backwards since maintaining no contact for 3 months.