Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 3 of 3
  1. #1
    aussie is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 109, Level: 2
    Level completed: 18%, Points required for next Level: 41
    Overall activity: 31.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jul 2013
    Posts
    10
    Points
    109
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    8

    Default friend zone/and now I told her...

    Hi,

    It s been a little we ve been friend with my ex who split up with me about 5 months ago...
    about 10 days ago I told that basically I was thinking about her and that I was wishing to give it a try again,she said that I was honest and she really like me and she would think about it,she told me as well she was really bad at comitting even if it s not what I asked her...she is not seeing anyone cause she is busy by herself for her professional goal...
    we ve been exchanging some sms since then but nothing that comitting to see her again...so I gave about a week space with NC and I recently sent her a sms asking her if we could meet over the week...no answer yet...I sent it yesterday.

    What do you reckon guys?

  2. #2
    Fuser is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 2,653, Level: 33
    Level completed: 36%, Points required for next Level: 97
    Overall activity: 23.1%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Posts
    387
    Points
    2,653
    Level
    33
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    132

    Default Re: friend zone/and now I told her...

    She did dump you for a reason. I think you need to remember that you need to paint a new picture of you in HER eyes. If you haven't done that then she will just use you as a comfort blanket and friendzone you.

    Although you might think honesty is the key here, it probably isn't. She needs to know you are a man of value, and other girls are willing to take you off the market. Trigger her jealousy.

  3. #3
    aussie is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 109, Level: 2
    Level completed: 18%, Points required for next Level: 41
    Overall activity: 31.0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jul 2013
    Posts
    10
    Points
    109
    Level
    2
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    8

    Default Re: friend zone/and now I told her...

    hi guys,

    I saw her again a little while after what i told her,she didn t mention anything of what i told her but I felt her really attracted to me that night,her behaviour has changed compared to the other times I saw her ...she was constantly looking at me straight in the eyes,laughing etc... and she didn t drink that night.
    I told her about 1 month ago already.... i m supposed to have a drink with her maybe in a week time I think ,she s the one who ask for it and she did it many times when I saw her,then to see her with another friend of her before the end of the month for a speed dating things that s somethings we planned prior I told her what I was feeling for her....

    questions:

    how long do you reckon it s gonna to take her to tell me ?
    Do you think it a good idea to go for a speed dating together?even if she said she doesn t care I wonder if she s not gonna to try to use to choose another guy?

    She s been writting on my FB recently what she rarely does and I replied 24h ours after,then I sent her a message another 24hours after because I didn t know anymore when we were supposed to meet up for the speed dating...

    It s about where I stand so far.....
    I wondering if she is not playing hard to get or something like that???


Similar Threads

  1. insulted, she told me my friend looks better than me
    By marvilo in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 05-15-2013, 10:42 PM
  2. Told I'm a bad kisser by girl in major friend group...
    By botas in forum General Questions
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 01-13-2013, 10:15 PM
  3. Friend zone or Friend with benefits?
    By pickuptranslator in forum General Questions
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 12-23-2012, 07:28 PM
  4. She sees me as a friend, need to stay out of Friend Zone
    By CriticalRap in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 18
    Last Thread: 11-19-2012, 10:26 PM
  5. got put in the friend zone. need some help with this
    By briggsy420 in forum General Questions
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 08-26-2011, 03:12 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com