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    jackstraw98 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default ran into ex gf, she texted me, what to do?

    tonight i was out running game on this girl who works at a bar. she got me in without cover etc....saw ex gf on street with some former co workers...got emotional followed sort of, bought some cigs, didn't see her. when i was going back to the club ran into her and another girl on the street. said hello, patted on the shoulder and said nice to see you. then walked away went back to where i was, k closed the other girl as soon as she got off, took her home. had a drunken couldn't get off kind of night. i told her straight up i was drunk and that i had seen my ex. aaaarg this has happened to me like twice ever.

    anyway, ex texted me not too long after i saw her "me alegro a verte bien" (im glad to see you well, more or less, or maybe im glad to see you're ok). not sure exactly how this translation works. i haven't responded. recognizing that she's still got me beat up (i did think about her during sex). what should i say? nothing? same to you? pretend i deleted her number, by saying ********? ? not sure what to do here. any words of wisdom?

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    jackstraw98 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: ran into ex gf, she texted me, what to do?

    would appreciate some thoughts feel like if I respond it should be soonish today....am thinking about saying hey yea you too, you know you were right, we are better broken up, I'm starting to see other people and I feel great.

    or just saying the same to you, nice to see you and leave it at that. man, she's still affecting me. on one level I really want her back and on another I'm not sure, really hasn't been enough time, but want to not burn the bridge entirely while also demonstrating high value and possibly attract her again.

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    jackstraw98 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: ran into ex gf, she texted me, what to do?

    update: well I initally responded with only nice to see you too. that was over whatsapp, where she sent the message from (everyone in Colombia uses this because no one has actual cell phone plans). it looks like though she has blocked me, since I can't see her picture or anything and the message never arrived to her. very strange that she was the one who sent the message intially and then blocked me. maybe i should have responded last night. i ended up just sending her a normal text that said it was nice to see you last night too, ive started meeting other people and i think everything happened for the best.

    i was foolish to kind of follow them, and knew i was taking myself for a mind trip. when I actually did run into her and her friend I was proud I played it cool, and it clearly had an effect since she messaged me. not sure if she meant it was nice to see YOU or it was nice to see you and no one got upset, I don't know. feel stupid that I let this affect me with the other girl. am realizing that im far from over the ex. still not sure what I even want, i know part of me really wants her back, but not sure how it would work out, she pulled some crazy stuff with me. im one moment an emotional wreck and then another im ok. blocking me on whatsapp removes one of my last few easy social network ways to demonstrate high value to her, as she also created a new Facebook, i wouldn't dare try to add her, although I would love for her to be able to see mine.

    any thoughts or feedback about how I handled this whole thing? any opinions on her motives of sending the message? on then apparently blocking me? i know i have to now go back to full no contact, ball's in her court. I also have to keep trying to just move on, as even if we had started talking again, im clearly not ready for all that.
    Last edited by jackstraw98; 08-11-2013 at 02:40 PM. Reason: added


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