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Thread: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Yes its true, i was totally a beta over there, i did something i have never done in my life. But anyway, she left her earrings in here, i called her and i said her that i should give her. She denied to come to my place so i went hers, she came downstairs and we made a conversation, i said "i am sorry what i did last night, i was a little bit drunk and thats why i was an asshole. But after yesterday i also dont want to be together".She said "I dont care how you feel and i dont want you in my life anymore." (Btw i realized that she blocked me on facebook because her bf said so)" And I said "dont worry i wont be in your life anymore, i wont call or send any SMS to you and i wont bother you. Just thanks for everything, it was nice, and i will always be there if you need me. By" and i turned back and went, she just said "Thanks" after that.
    Fucking stupid situation, right now i know that i shouldnt call her and i wont but i dont know what to do after today. Some of you guys may say "Fuck her find someone else" but i somehow have to get her back. It doesnt matter how long it takes. I just need a good plan a step by step method.

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    And today things changed, i wouldnt write to her bf or to her but in the morning her bf wrote to me, she somehow convinced him that i am lying about some stuffs and he accepted her at the first place but today he wrote to me, first i said i dont wanna involve anymore but he insisted and he was also a nice guy as far as i saw, we made a deal that she will never know about this conversation, and i told him everything (The truths) and he really believed me and today he broke up with her. Right now she is going to her home town and she wont be around here for a while. But i have no fucking idea what to do ? I think she hates me but i have to do something or do nothing and wait for her to write. I just dont know what to do... Please help

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Wow amazing turn of events that the bf was cool......if it is true that he broke up with her. What you said to her was perfect except for the "I'll always be there for you". The best thing u can do now is DON'T CONTACT HER. You can make your presence known and be the alpha male, go out with other girls, and she will find out or see/hear about it. They may get back together.....or not. Either way the only thing u can do is make it worse by INITIATING CONACT. If she contacts you....you have a choice. You can tell her to fark off cuz you realize how shallow she is by running back to you after the bf dumped her. Or you can make her work for it.

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    I just want her to come back, i didnt decide what to do right now. To accept her or not. But i want her to contact with me. She blocked me on her facebook but i think she can see my profile. Right now i think i should just send some posts with girls or some shits like that and not to contact with her right ? Do you think is there any other thing that i have to do or just wait and see whats gonna happen ?

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Here is the last situation.. She blocked me in all social network channels and now she is begging her bf to be together again, he is telling me the messages that she sends to her. And i became the 3rd person in here. Nothing to do. Or what should i do ? Just nothing ?

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    dont do anything.....nothing you can do except make it worse by seeming needy. Act like you have moved on and you are the alpha male. Sounds like a small town....she is bound to see or hear of you.

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    The issue is that i am really trying to move on (from sunday till now i farked 3 different girls and met with a pretty one and took her number) but all the time, when i am alone, i start to think about it. Anyway, here what i am doing, i am uploading some pictures with girls in parties like i dont care about her, i moved on and today i talked with a friend of her, i didnt mention about her or ask about her, just talked about myself and said her that i had some different girls in my life but now i am with someone (only one) and she is pretty nice etc. and things are going well. I didnt say anything about her. May be this is the way i should follow right ?
    Last edited by whocares28; 08-29-2013 at 04:37 PM. Reason: spelling mistake

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Last updates.. It has been a month without any contact. Last time i checked her facebook, she blocked me and couldnt get any access to her profile. And in this month, i saw her 2 times, in public places, without any hi's or any contacts. She also saw me too but didnt say anything, just turned her head to different side. Last week i saw that she unblocked me on her facebook but still we are not friends.
    About her bf, he contacted with me in this month and he told that he will break up with her as soon as he finds someone else, i think he is just using her (actually this is what he said) but right now they are making some holiday plans, so i dont know what they are gonna do.
    But still, i cant get her out of my mind, thinking about her 7/24. I know that i shouldnt get any contact with her but what to do ? Any advise ?

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Depends on what you may want out of this.this could be slavaged

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    I still dont know i just want to have contact with her and may be talk. One part of mine says that dont allow to that guy to use her, because she was my gf once which i love and now seeing that guy is just using her.
    But also the other part says that dont give a sh1t, its her decision and she should face the consequences.
    Btw i went to club last night with my friends, she was also in there with her bf, i had a little chat with him, he was trying to pick up different girls in there and told the same things to me (as soon as he finds someone else, he will kick her out). And she also saw me, again no contacts, i looked like a real alpha there, was talking and having fun with hot chicks, ignored her and she saw that.
    But after all i am not sure that she will contact with me, i just want her to come back to me and later i wanna decide what to do.
    So what to do if i decide to salvage ?


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