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Thread: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Need to bring her on your team sort of.she can't be on the other side
    That means you must engage her and stop pacing.she may like you

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    That's also what i want to do but the question is how ?

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Its time you stop avoiding her the relationship she may been in may have failed already.that guy seems into her still.

    you don't seem to have a problem with engaging so go ahead and run game on her once she seems interested you could continue for a bit and talk to other girls.

    Phone her later and invite her over and escalate.take that guys words with a grain of salt its not that hard to find a girl.

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Yes i think you are right about that guy, he should have broke up with her already and i can see actually he is still in to her (he is pretending like he is not)
    And yes i dont have any problem about game and engaging but the problem is she doesnt talk to me anymore and i dont see her alone (only in clubs with her bf). That's why i dont know how to go for her for the first time, i know that i shouldnt call her but what should i do ?

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Hmm, when you meet her at another social event, walk up and talk to her.
    warm up by being social before you delve in.
    Imply that you are just friends build attraction and move things ahead.
    check your body language do not smile too much or be too open.gauge hers too as you come unto her.

    Your frame is whatever negative energy she present be unaffected.she may be nervous at first.LEAD

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Man it can't work, the only social event i see her is in club, and she is always with her bf (i know also they are going for a dance event but also together) and that's why i dont wanna talk with her when her bf is around, somehow i have to find something else but i dont know what

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Woah..
    This guy is picking up chicks..this relation is in disarray sort of if you don't move ahead you may never get the shot.

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    He is actually "trying to pick up" chicks, he says that he is a PUA trainer but when i asked him with how many girls you fucked, he says around 30 which is a number i get in at most 1 year.
    And the other shit is that i dont know she is aware of this, i dont think that she knows what he is doing, so i think he is still a good guy in her point of view.
    And i know that i have to get back to the game but my problem is about first step, because if i do something, i think she will directly say to his bf that i contacted with her, so he will also try to hold her.
    May be a coincidence in somewhere when she is alone can work but i have no fucking idea what she does and where she goes in day time.
    Because i think if i call her or send a message on facebook she will say him directly...

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    I am thinking about sending a facebook message to her. It will be like that:

    Hi, i hope everything goes well.
    i know you kinda
    hate me, it’s all good. I was pretty
    ridiculuos back then haha. I’m just
    reaching out cause I promised
    someone I’d pass this opportunity
    along to anyone who might be
    interested and i know you always interested about this. It’s about being a hosstes. A friend of mine looking for hossteses and here is the application link for that, http://www.iq............. and i think you first have to go to an education program and its this one. https://www.facebook.com/events......./ link has all the
    details and you never need to hear
    from me again. I figure it’s the least
    i could do after everything

    What do you think about this message, do you think does it work ?

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    I sent this message and here is the summary :

    Me : ....... At least i could do after everything
    She : Ok i understood thanks for the information but you dont have to do something for me
    Me : I am not doing this for you, i am doing it for my friend, he asked this to me and i am sending this message to people who might be interested. So if you are not interested about it, so i will ask someone else no problem.
    Me : Btw i know who hate me and i did something really wrong, now i relase it and sorry about it, i just want to push away this big weight from my chest, we both made mistakes but we are adults what happened is happened, we can not change the past. But i saw you last night in the club and i thought we should at least say hi to each other, because at the end we are mature people. Now we have our own lifes and doing well. And today 2 friends of mine had a baby and i see that life is too short to hate and not to talk with each other. I thought at least we can stay as a friend
    She : And i dont hate you, i already forgot everything
    She : "Sent me a video of her friends' wedding"
    Me : Yes it seems nice (I sent the picture of the babies)
    She : I dont hate you, but this doesnt mean that i want to talk with you.
    Me : Ok if you think like that, there is nothing i can do. Good luck !

    To sum up, there is nothing left i can do i think and from here i dont think that she will respond me. So i think this is the end of the story


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