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Thread: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Don't give up so easy I wouldn't if I were you

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Man it's easy to say but what to do ? I know right now i can reverse things if i have chance to talk with her by playing my game and escalating but its fucking impossible and from now on i can not call her or send any message to her anymore because it makes me more desperate and beta now

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Hey man,

    You are right - for the moment. There is nothing more you can do now - you initiated contact and you handled it well. However, she said she doesn't necessarily want to talk to you so you have nowhere to go with her. For now.

    But you know what bro? Things change, people change and circumstances change. Sometimes they come back, sometimes they don't and you can't do anything to change her mind right now without giving all your power away. Don't do that bro under any circumstances, be a man. Walk away with dignity and respect and see what happens.

    There are other fish in the sea - when you are out and about look around at all the beautiful women out there and realise that a lot of them are looking for a good guy like you.

    Hang in there bro.

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    You were doing well but you took it a bit too personal.Think shit test.

    She : "I dont hate you, but this doesnt mean that i want to talk with you."

    Here you could have just played it off and changed the subject.If she hasn't replied in this dynamic pertaining to this situation she doesn't mind seeing you.this will work out.

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    So what you suggest ? What should i do ?

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Learning The Rope thanks bro i think you are right, may be its time to step away and wait for a while. Right now i just care about her and dont want her bf use her but there is nothing i can do.
    And Hardrock yes may be she doesnt mind to seeing me but i told you i dont see her in day time, may be in a club once a week with her bf but who gives a sh1t. I wont beg for her to be together, i did what i have to do and tried to contact with her and told her that we should at least stay as a friend, but she told that she doesnt want to talk with me. I wont beg for someone who doesnt want to talk with me, if she doesnt than we wont talk.
    If someone has a better idea i can go for it but for now i dont see any or i can think any better ideas.
    And guys really thanks for the backup, i really need that

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Hey bro, you are welcome. None of the guys on here know this girl like you do so go with your gut feel. We'll all have different opinions but one will resonate with you I think and that's the one to go for.

    That said; the fact that you are posting on here means that something doesn't feel right to you so take some time to compose yourself, gather your thoughts and wait and see what happens.

    You can always re-initiate contact later - like in a couple of months but don't push her closer towards her new BF. Stay out the way, let their honeymoon period pass (and we all know it will) and just wait it out. If she doesn't get back in touch (highly unlikely) then at least your dignity is intact and you can hold your head up high. It's a no-lose situation for you bro and there will be other girls better than this one.

    You're doing great - keep it going bro.

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Hmm Look!
    Its either you get this handled or you don't either ways waiting won't help in this dynamic.you may let her go

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Man actually i dont think that i have any other choice so best thing to do is to wait but i dont think that i will make a new move again because i did what i have to do and what i can actually because think about that, what can you say to your ex if she says you that she doesnt want to talk with you ? Ok i know stuffs, i will keep on my game, may be not actually the game but i will keep posting pictures with chicks or my trips or whatevet but its all i can do, and having that kind of a situation is really shit, you know you have to do something but there is nothing you can do, it really sucks man

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Met someone similar to you,mannerisms

    Freeze Out for a day may get that to her.

    Peace


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