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Thread: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    I think today she went for a holiday with her bf. And from that poiny, i can see that this mother farker was totally lying to me about her, she is still on to her, but his messages on facebook to me.. fark man its really stupid. He told me that he will try to make her drunk and push for a threesome... That kind of a guy she is with right now. Anyway, from today, i think i am done with her, there is nothing i can do more. I am just letting her go...

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    if he send you that kind of messages,u should let her know for her sake...she will regret it

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    How should i let her know man tell me ? I told that guy that the conversation will stay between us, and that's it. And if i tell her that he told me that kind of a shit, he will somehow say her that i am a liar or he will tell that he just wrote it to be sure that i will stay away from him or whatever, for somehow he will convince her that he is better for her than me. And showing that kind of messages which that guy sends will make me a beta for sure...

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Dude stop being that guys friend. do not reply his messages.think of yourself.go sarge other girls.. and blog about them here if you.., once they comeback reengage the girl.

    The guy wants his revenge but since he knows you also like her it kind of pulling him back.don't let him deter you.

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    No man it wasnt a message, he came near me when i was at club on weekend and he told those sh1ts to me, i actually said good for you and also gave an advise to go somewhere else if he wants for a romantic holiday, i acted really well near that guy no dubts about that and also i dont talk with him at all, no messages or nothing else. I just wanted to get myself into the game again but she refused it so i dont have any more channels. The best option is just to wait, hang with other chicks and if something happens with her again, wait for her to come to me. I dont see any option

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    .. either ways it may not be easy for you.shots can be created.

    "but his messages on facebook to me.."

    if you keep taking chances and not going full out eventually you may run in the dead zone.You could be sitting next to her and she may not feel anything.why?its been cemented that with you its just not going to work.

    What am telling you is if you would go for it be all in.stop talking to the guy.you run into the risk of becoming best friends.which is bad in this dynamic.Period.

    Put back your feelings and attract your target.power lies in you.

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Fuck it you are totally right, that would be the worst thing that can happen sitting next to her Iike a best friend, I will go for it with all, right now I have one chance, that moherfuckers messages to me on Facebook, I decided to show everything to her but wha you think how should I act when I am doing it ? Should i grap her and say its enough, we need to talk, sit down and listen to me.A conversation like that ?or something like
    Me: look we have been though a lot, good things or bad things, what happened is happened, but now it's not about me and you, it's about you, once I promise to you and to myself that I will always take care of you, and I thought a lot about it, and at the end I decided to do something because I waited like one month, because of your happiness, may be your bf changes his mind and you guys can be happy but I saw that he won't and he is just using you. Here is the proof (showing her FB messages)
    Here is what I can do for you at least, it's your life what to decide, I didn't do this to be with you again, I did because I always have to take care of you, because you have somewhere different in my hearth, so this is it, this is all I can do, take care...

    What do you think ?

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Don't bring him in your reality.You may build attraction, then move forward with her.

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    So how man ? What you suggest on that point ?

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    When she comes back freeze her out for three days if you may then text something along the lines of:
    met girl same smile,mannerisms
    start texting back and forth depending on the situation.make sure your conversation is emotionally charged.

    Once she is giving you IOIs just cut the convo and make the excuse to got to go do something.

    you may update here


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