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Thread: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Man i gave you the whole information, freezing out is not the issue, i am doing it right now and i can do it too when she comes back, but then what ? Or i will text to her ? But about what ? I already texted to her by finding an excuse and at the end she told me that she doesnt want to talk with me, ok let's think about it, i found something again and i texted to her, the conversation will be like;

    Me : Hi, how you doing ? A friend of mine bla bla bla... And i wanted to say this to you
    She : Ok thanks for the info but not necessary (Something like that)
    Me : Yes i got that and as i told you before if something comes up i am glad to show it to you if its something about you.
    ....

    And then what ? Here is my stupid point, i dont have any fucking excuses left to talk with her or send an SMS to her. What can i bring up ?

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Theres a lot in your dynamic going onhere

    Look!Let go of all inhibitions #adjust frame
    The material may get you what you want...
    "I already texted to her by finding an excuse and at the end she told me that she doesnt want to talk with me, ok let's think about it, i found something again and i texted to her, the conversation will be like;"
    Never simulate this again in your pua endeavors. it was a bit obvious then from where you were coming from.

    Me : Hi, how you doing ? A friend of mine bla bla bla... And i wanted to say this to you
    She : Ok thanks for the info but not necessary (Something like that)
    Me : Yes i got that and as i told you before if something comes up i am glad to show it to you if its something about you.
    ....

    Becos you no better than that to never start a convo with the opener "how are you doing" when you haven't shown personality via attraction.

    your opener due to your situation and the factors that pertain:met girl same smile,mannerisms

    there was one friend lady who came after a vacation with her boyfriend to my place the next day they were back in town.she arrived the previous night.The way you run game and The Vibe you put out should be taken into consideration if you may proceed.this could be salvaged easily



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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Ok what would you say to her if you were in this situation ? What kind of an opener would you use ?

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Personally i prefer to do situation specific at most.in mine she was just a friend had not dated prev..

    in your dyn you may open with:"met girl same smile,mannerisms"

    Peace

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Man i dont get it what exactly you mean by saying "Met girl same smiles, mannerisms" ?

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Man i dont get it what exactly you mean by saying "Met girl same smiles, mannerisms" ?
    its just that..

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Quote Originally Posted by whocares28 View Post
    Man i dont get it what exactly you mean by saying "Met girl same smiles, mannerisms" ?
    hey [nickname for ur girl] I met [ran into, saw] a girl the other day who was just like you...same exact smile, even mannerisms...so crazy!

    etc

    HardRock suggested this to me, I used it to break the ice and it worked... my dynamic is sort of similar... working on it...


    ..

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    It seems nice man thanks for the advice so when she comes back, i will try this for sure but i think she is gonna come up with something like "So whocares" or "Good (Happy) for you" or whatever. So how should we escalate from here ?

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    It seems nice man thanks for the advice so when she comes back, i will try this for sure but i think she is gonna come up with something like "So whocares" or "Good (Happy) for you" or whatever. So how should we escalate from here ?
    If that pertains simply state " lol cute" and transition into an emotionally charged statement..

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Hmm i totally understood what you mean, ok i will do that and let you know about the progress, thanks man, really thank you


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