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Thread: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

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    I just did nothing, no SMS no Facebook message, I actually tried to be busy about other stuffs and today she called me and then asked me to meet and I said ok we can wit a friendly voice but we will meet in 2 hours and I don't know how to act, I mean I should just go like a friend by building some attraction but what else, please give some advices

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    It seems she may still be with the other guy and called you somewhat.You don't want that.

    Whenever she does that and you haven't handle the attraction phase reschedule with her.why?
    you want the girl engaged in this dynamic somewhat before you ask her out.

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Man right now I don't have any idea, I will meet with her in an hour and I will find out what's it about, but what I will do is I will act to her like I don't love her again or feel anything, but first I have to find out what's it about, just a meeting like a friend or something different.. But I am sure about one thing, there will be an alpha today, without any anger or heartbreak, behind every decisions and never regret. I will let you know

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Here is the updates..
    Yesterday 5 minutes before the meeting she called me and said that she wont be alone, she is with her bf. And my first reaction was "I wont meet with you, what are you trying to do ? I dont care about your bf or your relation, i thought we can still talk and thats why you wanted to meet but i see that you are trying to do something else which i dont wanna involve. See you later."
    I hanged off the phone, but then i thought, "Why i am going away ? I can meet with them and i can show how strong i am, both of them". And then i called his bf (I also had his number) and said "What are you trying to do" and he said he wants to know some truths about some issues and thats why he wants to talk. I said ok, let's talk, because i know that if i wouldnt meet with them, he will start to say that i afraid to meet and say the truths.
    We met and started to talk, first 10 minutes was like he was asking some questions to me and her, and we were answering, sometimes we were getting angry like fighting but not that much. Anyway, i released that he is enjoying it, because he was like a judge with a small smile in his face. And when i saw that, i decided to do something else, like showing him and her i still care about her. I started to ask questions, about what he wrote on facebook to me about her, and i see that he somehow mentioned about it to her but like he wrote all of these to keep me away from her. That conversation kept going like 15-20 mint. and this time i was rolling the things, they were fighting and arguing. And last thing, i asked her, what are you planning to do ? and she said "I dont plan anything, i just wait him to say his plan, if he wants to be with me, i will, if he doesnt so i wont." (But at the same time, she was closer to me, i mean about her body language, she was trying to hold my arm, she was walking next to me but not him). And i asked the same question to him, what are you planning to do with her ? And he said i dont know yet, i didnt decide. And my answer was, "No matter what happens between me and her, i still care about her, and i always will, she is someone special for me, i will never let anyone to do anything to harm her, if you want to do something to harm her like you said me on facebook, dont do it." and she started to say that she also think about me, she always worry about me etc. And that was the end of conversation. But in first 10 mint. i told her that i dont want to call me or text me, nothing.
    Now i have no idea what to do, i mean should i call her ? And should i call her for what ? I see that she still has no idea about facebook messages, i mean she knows something but she doesnt know the truths. Should i call her to show the messages which he sent to me or what ? Or for something else ?
    Please i need your advises. Yesterday was a good day for me, because i acted like a real alpha and i felt it. And i felt like she is still have some feelings for me and seh showed it with her body language and the ways she acts.

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Depends on what you really want out of this...the guy may secretly be mocking you
    get serious with your game!.Always be prepared..

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    I want my ex back, seriously, last time on facebook when i tried to talk with her, she doesnt even want to talk with me, but now she talks and she said that she wants and also meet too but she cant be sure because i already said a lot to her bf about our history and she cant trust me and she says she told his bf that she wont meet.
    And about that guy, yes you are right, he was but i already found out that and i am done with him.
    Right now actually i am in a better situation where i was 2-3 weeks ago (in her eyes). And now somehow i want to escalate things, because i feel that now is the time and i am ready to go for it with what i have but dont know where to start. Do you think that message thing would still work ? i mean "met girl same smile,mannerisms" ? or should i try something different ?

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    The dynamics have changed.You have been set back a bit.letting that out 'history' was AFC.There are a few things you must do.take control via structures more and really screen frame she presents to you.

    use line and ignore that whilst utilizing attraction based content

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Last 2 days we were in contact with her too much (we had a conversation on phone today for a very long time, some of them was based on last days issues, she told that she already started to look for a new house to live but she is still with that guy by the way, but generally it was about her and me, but was a nice and good conversation with full of attraction. I was thinking to Freeze Out for 2 days and then use this line.
    And the other issue which i forgot to mention is she thinks i have a girlfriend, because i did like that on facebook like 1 month ago and i think she saw it on facebook. Today she asked some questions about her, i said no point to talk about her, i like spending time with her and we are having fun but she is not "The one" and i dont love her etc.

    Ok 2 questions right now.
    1. Should i keep going that way ? I mean with the girlfriend stuff, should i do my relation status on facebook "Has no relationship", because even if i decide to say her that i broke up with my girlfriend, i wont do it like too obvious, if she asks i can but without it i wont say anything. Or should i keep saying i have a girlfriend.
    2. I will use this line but exactly when ? Like freezing out for 2 days and then using it sounds better to me. But i didnt exactly understand what do you mean by saying "and really screen frame she presents to you".

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    1. Should i keep going that way ? I mean with the girlfriend stuff, should i do my relation status on facebook "Has no relationship", because even if i decide to say her that i broke up with my girlfriend, i wont do it like too obvious, if she asks i can but without it i wont say anything. Or should i keep saying i have a girlfriend.
    Focus more attraction.if brought up just go ahead with your game.

    2. I will use this line but exactly when ? Like freezing out for 2 days and then using it sounds better to me. But i didnt exactly understand what do you mean by saying "and really screen frame she presents to you".
    Nope u got momentum begin running game after that ask her out.

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    fark it man, yes i built some attraction yesterday, i sent the message and she responded in a good way after 2-3 messages she decided not to send any message and she called me. She said we can not send messages to each other everyday because she has a bf bla bla. And that's it, i told her, you made your decision, and i made mine. I dont wanna talk with you anymore, it's enough, because i dont have anything to do with someone who has bf. And i really mean it. I dont give a sh1t anymore. I wont be the one who try to get back her again, because i am sick of it and i am not that kind of a guy. She already did a lot which i can not accept and that's it. I will write you if something happens but for sure i will chase the other girls and the second i wont be the one who will contact again. But thanks for the advises, for all of them, i learned a lot from here.


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