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Thread: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Man we are talking like every day on facebook (but we are still not friends) and generally she is the one who writes me. Generally i try to build attraction in all of our conversations (trying to make her remember old good days, f.ex she sent a picture of mine today and i sent some pictures of her and us together when we where together) and mention about the changes in my life and about me. But i afraid to be the second for her, everytime when she tries to make a Sh1t Test on me i always try to respond in a good way or try to break rapport (f. ex she sent me a picture of a duvet cover and i said her that i will give you as a present when you move to your new place, and she said she will buy herself and i said her that i like giving presents to people because i like to see their face when they get it).
    What i afraid about is to be the second. I mean when she comes, i will try to push her for a meeting (It wont come out from me, i will make her offer that) and try to escalate and build some attraction on the meeting. But what if she responds in a negative way and says that she has a bf ? How should i react and what should i do ? Or do you think should i freeze her out for a while ? What you guys think ?

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Look! You need to chill with the good times from her sounds like even though theres a bit attraction you may be spending too much time in comfort.


    'Lol cute'
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    obviously you did well ..
    sometimes when you begin feeling like the second wheel the Tension may be slipping sort off
    keep interactions brief and at high points.
    When she comes to town its a shot.ask her out close to your place if you may and then transition ahead from there.

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Hey guys, last updates...
    I did just exactly guys told me to do, built comfort and attraction, with little Tension, reminding some good memories and plans about future... We talked like every day whole week and yesterday she called me again and we talked like an hour but this time it was about us. She told me that she doesnt trust his boyfriend like he trusted to me and even right now she said she trusts me more then him. And tomorrow she wants to meet but in my place, she also said that she missed me. But i know that the other reason of that is she afraid that one of his boyfriends friend can see us. What i plan for tomorrow is to built some attraction, and later watch a comedi film and build some sexual escalation. It's possible that we may have sex tomorrow. But what should i do ? Tomorrow is really important to me, for example when we get to that point should i refuse to have sex with her when she has a boyfriend or should i go for it ? Or should i open myself after all and tell her that how i changed and how i want her back ? Fuck its gonna be a hard day tomorrow.

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    I think the sooner u 2 have sex the better it will be

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Be running light Kino whilst building attraction.touching her to emphasize a point...when she gets to your house get straight to it. Make out with her at least.simply stroke her hair whilst in close proximity.then move in.as you are making out put her to the to the wall and start kiss neck etc.whatever you do from here make sure you start grinding between her legs with your hips. Whilst on it.the pull away may come when you are pining her to the wall.it begins.personally if you shoot for the movie it may stall things a bit.

    With grinding you could start with one leg almost in between her thigh then escalate from there

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Fucked up , again. Man i am done, this time i mean it.
    Everything was fine, we watch film, i made massage talked about good things and laughed etc. And then i went for a kiss when she was going to kitchen and she just refused and said she shouldnt do it. I said ok and then we started to talk, i said everything changed whatever and i know that i want you, i will make you happy like the old times. And she first said she doesnt know, i said i dont want you to think because you should make a decision and if you make your decision in negative way i wont be again anymore and i wont want this, and we will never talk again. She went to my bedroom, had a long conversation with one of her girfriend, came back and she said she doesnt want to be together, we wants to spend time but being together, thats what she doesnt want. I said ok i understand it but otherwise nothing to talk and went to near door and i opened to door and she left.
    End of story, i will move on if i can. And i think there is nothing more to do, at least from my side because i wont do anything anymore.
    Thanks guys for your supports.

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    It was so stupid guys, she hugged me like 10 minutes, she said she doesnt know, she cried a little but fuck why no ? She is fucking playing with me. Anyway it already ruined my life till now better to move on..

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    my ex is like that,she doesn't know what she wants...I found another girl and that's the cure for this ex disease

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    Is she worth it? I say she is not. I have a life experience with my ex,I learned a lot,I saw my mistakes,she treat me like a dog...leave her,if she comes back u decide what u really want with her. I wanted my ex more than anything,but that feeling is going away...

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    Default Re: Totally f... up and dont know what to do. Please i need help

    NailedIT you are totally right. She is not worth it. This girl was someone who said loved me very much but when she was saying this she slept with the first guy on the same day she met. No more gaming or other stuffs for her, that was enough. I moved on and even if she comes back, my answer will be always no. I wanted to be with her but thats enough already. But thanks for all of you guys, i also learned a lot from you guys.


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