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    Default Birthday Gift for Ex-Girlfriend?

    My girlfriend and I have been broken up for couple of months now. She cited that I didn't make her feel special enough on her last birthday. Whatever, I got her birthday coming up soon and I have been mulling over the idea of giving her a gift on her birthday. I have to add, she's one of those little girls who get excited about birthdays and stuff.

    Just to be clear, I'm not exactly desperate to get back with her, but I sure feel like making her feel special on that day since we had been so close before breaking up. It's been a while since the last time I talked to her and to be honest I feel like flirting with her now. My query is, how do I gift her something without giving her the idea that I want to get back with her? Suggestions of gift items would be of great help too. Any help regarding this is highly appreciated. Thanks!

    P.S. This certainly is not about getting back, but just to make her feel good on her birthday. I owe her that.

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    Default Re: Birthday Gift for Ex-Girlfriend?

    Don't send her a gift. Send her a text wishing her a happy b-day. Nothing more , nothing less. If she contacts you then play it cool and re-engage her IF you want to hang out with her again.

    If she doesn't acknowledge your text then you need to move on and never contact her again FIRST. Buying gifts for an ex is a AFC thing to do.

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    Default Re: Birthday Gift for Ex-Girlfriend?

    I would say in no way should you feel obligated to get her a gift. I think as Dave said a text is more than a sincere gesture. now if you really want to get a gift, then by all means do it, but make sure that its not because you want to get back together, because you may be disappointed. in other words do what you feel is right, but don't carry any expectations with it.

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    Scarambay is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Birthday Gift for Ex-Girlfriend?

    Thanks for the suggestions, guys. After much thought, I neither wished on her birthday nor did I send her a gift. But, she texted me from an anonymous number asking how I have been doing. I replied, but she kept asking boring stuff which irked me and I replied a bit rudely without actually knowing it was her. I think I hurt her again!

    What do you guys think she's up to? Should I just brush this aside as if nothing's happened, or try initiating a conversation with her?

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    Default Re: Birthday Gift for Ex-Girlfriend?

    You should have sent her a nice birthday card


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