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    jackstraw98 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: broke nc, she says we shouldn't be in touch but will meet up

    ok, if and when she does contact me again, and if and when we do set up a meeting, how should we address things? I don't think its been enough time nor do I think the situation will be one where we just get together and shoot the sh!t. I know normally you would want to just keep it lighthearted, but I feel certain the relationship will come up. there were things I realize I did that pushed her away, things that I said and the way I acted that were not ok. I mean she was leaving this rich guy for me, but the lack of honesty from the beginning led me to be pushy and lack confidence. I shouldn't have been jealous of this guy, I was winning, but I was. the lying and her motives are still things that worry me a bit, and I realize before I was going out of my way to make her prove to me that she was going to be honest from here on out, and that pushed her away from me. It was all very confusing. You know someone is more likely to lie if there is negative consequences (she didn't tell me about this from the beginning because she wanted to be with me) but there's also things that are unacceptable. In the end I see how I didn't give her the space to get out of the other relationship. just not entirely sure how to approach talking again

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    Default Re: broke nc, she says we shouldn't be in touch but will meet up

    Hey Rod I appreciate things so far. I would like to know what you or antone else for that matter thinks about this. She hasnt contacted me yet, but I was talking to a friend last night. She works where I used to and where my ex now works full time. She was telling me she and some of the other girls were talking about me and how they missed me (i was really well liked at mt job, both on a professional and personal level). Anyway I asked if my ex said anything about me. She told me that while she says she doesnt wanr anything with me, its obvious shes still in love with me inside and that shes fooling herself with this other guy. This girl kind of cut the conversation off as it made her a bit uncomfortable I think, which I understand. So it seems like she has tried to convince herself this other rich guy is the best option. Now I know they will never really work out.

    What to make of all this? Maintain waiting on her to reach out? Its a good sign that I come up over there. Shes got closer older friends who know this other guy, but shes around these people who dont and speak highly if me. How can I use that to my advantage? Whats mt move if I dont hear from her un the next few days? I do feel as if im reachinf a point where I either need to get her back or really get rid of all hope and totally move on.

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    Default Re: broke nc, she says we shouldn't be in touch but will meet up

    I'm not the expert, but if she still has feelings you can either let her figure it out herself(which I know sucks cuz I'm going through it too) or try to "pull" her in with subconscious attraction.

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    Default Re: broke nc, she says we shouldn't be in touch but will meet up

    And how do you suggest reeling her in subconciously wothout being in touch?

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    Default Re: broke nc, she says we shouldn't be in touch but will meet up

    If she knows people u know, she will find out. Agree with the breakup and whatever decision she made and that you are fine with it. Do other dhv and go about your life being an alpha male. She will find out. Blow up your FB with pics of you doing fun things.

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    Default Re: broke nc, she says we shouldn't be in touch but will meet up

    I never heard back from her, its been a week. I get all of what you're saying, but I'm having a hard time with it all. I think its because the situation was so complicated.

    Do you think its at all smart to seek her out and tell her how I'm feeling, namely that I realize I pushed her away at the end, that I'm sorry for some of the ways I acted and tell her that I'm not scared or jealous anymore, that what I want is for us to start building something real together? I wouldn't beg her to come back to me, but I feel like deep down she wants to be with me, and talking to her friend the other week really confirmed that, she's just too scared to lose the things this other guy has promised her and her own guilt I think has kept her with him. I realize the way I acted at the end amplified those things and leaving all that for a hurt, unsure me that wasn't willing to commit or promise anything to her I can see why she ran away.


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