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    jackstraw98 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default broke nc, she says we shouldn't be in touch but will meet up

    I haven't been able to get any love on here, I get my story's too long and complicated. if anyone really wants to read it its in some other posts. After a complicated breakup, I sent her an email saying that I missed her, that I knew that after what had happened things weren't the same, the situation had too much pressure and neither one of us was really ready to go all in on saving it, that I wasn't myself, and I apologized for some things that I said that probably made her feel bad.

    She texted me saying that she thought it was best for us not to continue in contact for now. but she did say she didn't have any problem talking face to face. interpretations of this? is it worth meeting in person to try to salvage something? I initially said that I felt like I had said everything in the email, and that if she ever wanted to talk now or in the future I would find the time to do it. i feel like I'm going crazy here, I shouldn't still be stuck on her, but I am, its been about a month since the complete breakup, i have been flirting with some other girls and have kissed two, but I still can't stop thinking about and wanting her. Should I wait for her to do something or try to set up a meeting myself?

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    Default Re: broke nc, she says we shouldn't be in touch but will meet up

    it's only been a month.....she isnt going to miss you yet

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    Default Re: broke nc, she says we shouldn't be in touch but will meet up

    so you think give it more time? how long?

    the situation was really complicated, she was cheating on a long distance guy who wants to marry her (and has a lot of money) that I never knew about. when she finally told me, it was a long drawn out like 3 week where we didn't see each other process where she said she decided she loved me, and finally ended it with the other guy, then ended it with me a few days later, saying she wanted to be alone, but I feel that he may still be in the picture. she had even gone thru putting our relationship on Facebook (something taht she didnt have with the other guy and in fact never even had pictures of them). Then she deleted it and created a new one, we aren't friends but I can see she's friends with him. I realize I was jealous and pushy towards the end and I feel that I pushed her away from me. I wasn't the same person that attracted her in the first place. not sure she knows what she wants. For me, I feel like we didn't even give it the opportunity to work out.

    just not sure how ot take the not in contact "for now" part along with the fact that she said she doesn't have a problem meeting in person. At first I thought I was getting over it, but then I kind of spiraled back down, just at a loss.

    worth meeting? wait? how long? leave the ball totally in her court? how to approach it either way?

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    Default Re: broke nc, she says we shouldn't be in touch but will meet up

    well, she was calling me today, i missed it and she texted me saying she got the impression i wanted to talk, she said she thinks its best for us not to, but she would. what should i do, meet?

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    Default Re: broke nc, she says we shouldn't be in touch but will meet up

    i feel like this could be a Sh1t Test, like should I tell her how I feel or am I too scared to do it.

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    Default Re: broke nc, she says we shouldn't be in touch but will meet up

    Make her miss you...or reply and then cut it short

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    Default Re: broke nc, she says we shouldn't be in touch but will meet up

    she's saying that she has the impression taht I want to meet up and talk. she's saying she thinks its best for us not to be in touch, yet after a week, she's contacting me. do you think this means, she wants to meet, but doesnt want to admit it? should I take the initiative and set up a meeting? I haven't responded to the last text where she said she tought it was I who wanted to talk

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    Default Re: broke nc, she says we shouldn't be in touch but will meet up

    I don't think you should be worried if she is the one saying these things.....you are in pretty good shape. I'd do nothing for a day or two and she will probably send you another more direct message. Then you can pull her in a bit.

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    Default Re: broke nc, she says we shouldn't be in touch but will meet up

    I told her that if she wanted to talk we could and she said she maintains that us staying in contact would not be for the best and that she had the impression that I wanted to talk, although she reiterates that its not the best idea. then in sort of an accusatory way she said that she thought it was me who wanted to talk. honestly I don't feel like I'm in such good shape.

    im just not sure how to interpret the whole thing....she texted me last week saying she hadn't responded to my email because she felt like it was best for us not to talk but she would meet, I responded that I felt like I had said what I wanted to say and had done it by email because I had been busy, but that I would meet her if she wanted to talk now or in the future. a week later, after no contact, she's saying this today that she gets the impression I want to talk, she thinks its a bad idea, but she will do it. (now I did ask a mutual friend if she was still with the other guy a few days ago, and said I missed her, maybe this got back to her, although I asked the girl to keep it between us).

    so how do I go about pulling her in then? i mean, why the heck call and write me a week later at all if she is going to continue saying we shouldn't be in touch at all? this whole thing is eating me up.

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    Default Re: broke nc, she says we shouldn't be in touch but will meet up

    Just give it a few days.....the reasons she told you are bogus.


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