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    HardRock is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: thinking about contacting ex.

    29 days work on your game more.even though a week will suffice.when you want to initiate contact or even now you may write up here.

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    Default Re: thinking about contacting ex.

    Thanks guys... straight answer. Not sure if you have been hearing what I am saying though... I HAVE been in no contact for 2 months. I HAVE been working on myself. Deep inner game. The other day I took a chick to the top of a cliff and fucked her and later her boyfriend made me a sandwich (true story)... I have my head on straight and am ready to game her, I was just unsure if I should wait this new dude out or not. Trust me, I am fucking every bit of man now that I was when we first started dating, probably better than that. I have been trying to say that. The spinning poi is just one thing. She started losing interest because she said we didnt go out and have fun and shit. So I traveled half the country. Saw graceland, mamoth cave, new orleans, Dallas. Posted pictures of me doing this shit. The poi thing was just a thing I started doing because friends where doing it, its a hell of a workout too. I want to re initiate contact whenever is cool. Now is fine for me. What do I do? Keep in mind boyfriend is living with her so....

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    Default Re: thinking about contacting ex.

    I feel like calling my ex sometimes too. My solution for that is simply drinking a cup of vodka or whiskey, when I'm drunk I don't feel the emotional pain that much.

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    Default Re: thinking about contacting ex.

    Ok...

    Now i've got it. Well, it seems that you got your sh*t together. But do you really?

    I was in the same situation, until yesterday I was gold. I went NC, did loads of stuff, dated other chicks. And then I asked her out last week for a coffee.

    She went. It was awesome. I didn' kissed her on purpose, and left.

    And that my friend is when I lost it. we kind of arranged a next coffee "sometime". I did not spoke to her for the whole weekend, and yesterday I was so afraid of the outcome of my message, that I rushed things so much that I scared her away.

    Bottomline is, I thought I was ok. I thought I had my game on. But I didn't. If I had, I wouldn't be so afraid yesterday, I would play it on the safe side. But I was desperate to have her back, which can translate to emotionally unstable.

    So my advice is, DO MAKE SURE YOU ARE REALLY OK before reengage contact. You have to be 100% detached emotionally from her, 'cause then, any outcome will be Ok, 'cause you are doing your sh*t.

    Otherwise, all your efforts will be in vain, as she will see right through you. And then, like me, you will go back to day 1.

    Cheers from day 1 Man. It sucks to be in here again.
    Play it safe, and good luck man!

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    Default Re: thinking about contacting ex.

    Warm up for a week by running game on other girls and engage her.or u may just pick up the phone and call..

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    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    Warm up for a week by running game on other girls and engage her.
    The best answer.
    Short, and straight to the point. That is exactly what you should do!

    Always remember, be the most detached emotionally from her, and this will work wonders!

    Good Luck!


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