First off, I am not sure if I am going to contact my ex, yet. Backstory: 2 year relationship ended. I broke up with her because of trust issues. This was followed by on and off no contact/ contact for about seven months and me being beta a few times (regretfully). When contact would happen it would usually end up in a fight due to me not having my shit together, I know eight months is a long time, sue me.
She strung me along and started seeing a new guy all the while she was telling me that she wanted to work things out with me. Anyway I have been in no contact with her for 2 months. Last we talked we had decided to just be friends and I wished her well with her new boyfriend and all that jazz. There was a fight involving her picking up her sh1t from my house, she said she wanted it... I gave her a window of opportunity, she didn't pick it up so I threw it out. She got mad... Not my problem.
Question is, I am not sure I want to lose this person from my life as stupid as it sounds, and after a while of being able to collect myself I find that it might be okay to contact her in a few months... Problem being, she moved in with her new boyfriend and from what I can tell they seem happy. Not sure if I want her back or not, not sure if I just want to be friends. But, how is the best way to go about contacting her in the future? I figure I should give her at least three months of living with her boyfriend before she is comfortable talking to me and whatever. Any thoughts?