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    Frozenheart is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Accidentally broke NC

    I recently broke up with my ex whom I dated for a year and a month, through the relationship, trust issues were an underlying problem, always doubting me and always picking fights whenever I talk to another girl. So this went a good two months and it died down eventually. But we decided to break it off about a month ago, went NC for two weeks then went to a concert with her that we planned a while ago. Everything went smooth for four days then all of a sudden she starts getting ticked off and shows no respect. She hung up on me for about 15 times, blocked me on facebook 6 times cause she thinks I was still lying to her about stuff when I changed for the better for her. I just thought it was childish for her to go to the extreme of blocking me, out of nowhere too, but yeah about two weeks ago I called her and told her that I accept the breakup and we should see other people and get some space right? she agreed and I said bye to her. On saturday her cousin posted a status that I disagreed on so I messaged her and gave her some advice, then followed up on her yesterday on her situation, THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN. My ex texts me and says "you're messaging my cousin now? you're such a fucking creep." "I can't believe you're talking to younger girls and trying to help them with their problems." then I said "I gave her a piece of my mind, told her its up to her what she wants to do. she then responded with "you disgust me, I don't even wanna think about you, stay away from me and my family. I'm blocking your number now." then I said " BYE "

    I love her so much but this is the part of her that I hate the most, it's mainly kiddy shit, she doesn't seem to be getting any mature than her age, she's 20, I'm 23. I need help on how to handle the current situation, NC and get back with her or move on?

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    Frozenheart is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Accidentally broke NC

    Can anyone help me? Please???....

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    Default Re: Accidentally broke NC

    I'll be bluntly honest with you bro,

    my (ex) girlfriend has an attitude problem as well, since our breakup shes been cold hearted, aggressive, and hostile, and one thing I've come to accept:

    until that hostility is gone, there's nothing I can do right to get us back together.

    The difference between my ex and yours though, is my ex hasn't always been like this, it has only started since shes become "angry with me" post breakup. from your story, this is part of her.

    There's really not much you can do until she decides to not be angry with you, and if shes naturally like that and always has been, it's probably not going to change.

    Also take in to mind your ages, her being 20 years old, she has not figured out who she is yet, she has barely even been "on her own", the next few years of her life are important times that will develop who she is, and it's very likely that she's simply not emotionally built yet to have a long lasting relationship. No offense meant, but you're still fairly young yourself and the same may be true for you as well.

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    Default Re: Accidentally broke NC

    Your girl seems to be one who is not comfortable with guys in relationships interacting with other girls.met few in that regard.don't let her on that.there are are a few holes you may fix in dynamic.


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