I know im going to get flamed for this, and i know ive been here long enough to understand the DJ forums Mindset.
My ex has been on my mind a lot lately. Most of the girls now just dont match up with her. A lot are flaky, dont stick to their word. You guys know how it is, this one wasnt/didnt.
She did a lot for me. Would cook, clean for me, do my laundry, a lot of stuff you dont see now a days. Theres a couple of issues though. We dated for a year and a half, on and off, broke up got back together, 3 times total. Which is a big red flag not to go back.
The issue was also me, once we got into a "official relationship" it went down hill. I guess the title scared me. When we were just FWB or just dating, I was completely fine, banging other girls, the perfect Don Juan in my head, pulled it off flawlessly.
I made some mistakes along the way, I realize them now and what i needed to do to fix them and i did. Put it in my head i wont be that way, and i learned from it. I still have options right now, seeing 2 girls going on dates a couple times a week, but i still have this girl in the back of my head.
You have to think of the bad also and the bull we both went through, part of doesnt want to go back to that, but for the most part the positives outweighed the negative.
Its been 8 months since our last contact and break up.
For the record, I broke up with her.