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    Default Need help with now ex gf?

    Hi guys, I'd really appreciate it if you read this.

    Okay so my girlfriend of 8 months recently broke up with me. She said she's needs space. "this time maybe for good" That's what she said. We've still been talking regularly through this time.

    So yesterday she sends this text.

    Her: even though we aren't together anymore, I really hope we'll still be apart of each other's lives..somehow. You're like a bubblegum on my shoe. That close to me. But I don't know, your hopes are probably different to mines.

    Me: Yes my hopes are different.

    Her: But for now we are friends. close ones. it's hard not to be.

    Her: Unless you want nothing to do with me

    Her: I don't wanna force this friendship on you.

    Okay so guys. I'm really stumped. I don't know whether to go all No contact or be 'close friends' as she says but I know that's AFC. So what exactly should I do? I want her back.

    Thanks for reading guys.
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    Learning The Ropes is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need help with now ex gf?

    Hey bro.

    Clearly this girl still likes you but she has asked for some space. So give her space and let her realise what life will be like without you.

    Now in most situations I would recommend hardcore No Contact but that could backfire if she just genuinely needs some time to get her head together i.e. there is nothing else going on.

    So the rules here are simple; keep contact VERY limited. Do not contact her first under any circumstances. When she does reach out to you, take a while to respond and keep conversations light. And try and end the conversations first e.g. by saying you gotta go or just leaving the conversations hanging.

    Basically you got to show her you respect yourself enough to walk away if that is what she really wants.

    Good luck man.

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    HardRock is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Need help with now ex gf?

    Tell her you dont mind been friends freeze her out for two weeks whilst learning and meeting people in general.may work more on attraction with her.


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