So recently, about 3 months ago, my gf of 4 years and I decided to break up. Now, I had a gf before her that I dated for about 2 years, and ever since we broke up we've always kept contact.. Not a lot, but the odd message or whatever, we never went more than a few months without some sort of catching up. It's always kind of been in my head, wondering what it would be like to get with her again, and I'm still very curious and think it would be fun. I don't want a LTR with her again, not right now anyways. She's dated a lot of guys since her and I broke up with no success, and I ended up with a girl for 4 years. So we started talking after my most recent breakup and she's been talking a lot about her family, her life, and how jaded she is with guys and with dating in general.. She also said that I probably "seem like good bf material" to girls because I have my sh1t together etc.
So I finally decided to ask if she'd be up for going out and getting a drink sometime, and she said yes, and told me about this pub we could go to by her house etc.
What I'm trying to figure out is whether or not she sees this as a date, and a possible fling, or if this is gonna be like a friends zone thing.. Which I don't want. Or is she gonna want to get back together? How long should I wait to setup the date? We didn't talk about a specific time or day.
Also I've never hooked up with an ex... She was a long time ago but is there a chance this might bring back old feelings for her?
Thanks a lot for any feedback guys!