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Thread: ex had a change of attitude and now wants to talk - HELP BY FRIDAY

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    Default ex had a change of attitude and now wants to talk - HELP BY FRIDAY

    when my ex broke up with me she went full hostile and lashed out every turn she got. This has gone on for 3 months.

    I decided to go no contact after taking a month of beatings from her. The only reason we would associate is she would contact me about my stuff and i would make excuses not to deal with it. She also insisted that her new boyfriend would be coming.

    well, she contacted me a couple days ago and we arranged a date to deliver my stuff. I told her I wont be there and she can just drop it off. She got a little upset, i asked if she -wants- me to be there, and she basically said yes, and said she wont bring the bf.

    she mentioned she wants to "talk about how things ended" and "get closure", she said "everythings been fucking with her and she wants to talk to me about everything"

    I don't know how to handle this. Shes not coming with a "i want to be back with you" attitude, but she is being civil, and has basically admitted that she has obviously been thinking about me. How do I play this? Do I admit I want her back? Do I try to keep 100% professional? Do I let her know my feelings? What do i do...

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    Default Re: ex had a change of attitude and now wants to talk - HELP BY FRIDAY

    Sounds like she has a new boyfriend. Do not tell her your feelings. I would not see her in person if that's what she wants and you want her back. She wants what she can't have. Giving her your attention is not my suggestion

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    Default Re: ex had a change of attitude and now wants to talk - HELP BY FRIDAY

    Hey bro.

    Please take a step back and think about this logically, without any emotion.

    This girl has, by your own admission, been a total b1tch to you for 3 months. Now all of a sudden she wants closure and you are going to let her walk back into your life to get this from you?

    She broke up with you remember so she needs to deal with the consequences. She deserves nothing from you bro. Repeat - nothing.

    Put this another way. Imagine for a minute you had fallen out with one of your male friends and he had been a total d1ck to you. Then all of a sudden he wanted something. Would you help him? I bet you would tell him to fark off wouldn't you?

    This is all about power bro, don't give her the satisfaction. Let her get the stuff when you are out. Or, even better, let her come over, give her the stuff and tell her you don't have time to talk. Then freeze her out - let her deal with the consequences of dumping you herself.

    Go for it! Show her you are a real man.

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    Default Re: ex had a change of attitude and now wants to talk - HELP BY FRIDAY

    This girl seems to be baiting you sort of.i belive her on the closure part but then you have her attention now.if she deos come alone which she might run game and escalate.this should be pertainent if you note indicators of interest.


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