when my ex broke up with me she went full hostile and lashed out every turn she got. This has gone on for 3 months.
I decided to go no contact after taking a month of beatings from her. The only reason we would associate is she would contact me about my stuff and i would make excuses not to deal with it. She also insisted that her new boyfriend would be coming.
well, she contacted me a couple days ago and we arranged a date to deliver my stuff. I told her I wont be there and she can just drop it off. She got a little upset, i asked if she -wants- me to be there, and she basically said yes, and said she wont bring the bf.
she mentioned she wants to "talk about how things ended" and "get closure", she said "everythings been fucking with her and she wants to talk to me about everything"
I don't know how to handle this. Shes not coming with a "i want to be back with you" attitude, but she is being civil, and has basically admitted that she has obviously been thinking about me. How do I play this? Do I admit I want her back? Do I try to keep 100% professional? Do I let her know my feelings? What do i do...