The situation in short: Date girl 2.5 years. She breaks up with me. Says she doesn't want to be in a relationship. 3 weeks later she is dating someone new.
I will try make this short.I have been following pua and some basic relationship fundamentals for some time and I would say i have a pretty good idea of how to conduct myself in a relationship and afterwards, however i would like your guys opinion on something.
4 months ago sex basically stops out of nowhere with my gf, clear sign of trouble. Tried to spice things up, didn't work. She tells me its not working, i tell her she should follow her heart and I go nc, i wasn't cold about it though, i did tell her this isn't what i want.
1 week later she calls me, and tells me she made a terrible mistake. we get back together. Go on holiday together, things good again. However when we get back to varsity, sex declines again, and she ends up breaking up with me again. I go NC, this time it takes 3 weeks for her to contact me, she asks to go for coffee, she tells me she is so confused but she still loves me. I tell her lets both take some more time. So about 2 weeks later she hooks up with someone else at one of the clubs close by campus, some of my friends had seen(told me about it).
So i sent her a text asking her whatsup, we need to get on the same page. She ignores it. Her and I share a mutual friend, so i ask her what my ex's current Mindset is. She tells me my ex is now seeing the other guy, and that she feels like she wasn't ready to be committed and settle down. (I was her first kiss, broke her virginity).
Its been about three weeks no contact, hadn't heard anything from her. I go out see her and the new guy together, all over each other. She sees me and i say hey whatsup, she acts like a total bitch and just basically ignores me and carries on being all over the other guy INFRONT of me.
Have i handles this correctly? Should i go and actually face her and ask what is up? I have a date tonight with another girl, and i think she knows about it. Is this pushing her further into his arms? Or should i just continue seeing other women and acting indifferent?