So here's the situation. I hooked up with this HB9 a few weeks ago, then took her out on a date a few days later. She stayed the night again after dinner and we had been texting for a few days. Then she suddenly got distant and was really tough to make plans with. I found out from my roommate (who's dating her roommate) that the HB9 has been "talking" with her ex of 7 years. My guess is they're probably seeing each other again.
Now I'm not trying to get between them. She was with him 7 years and if she loves him I'm not going to try to break that up, not my style. That being said, if they broke up once my money is that they may break up again, and I want to be ready when that happens. So how do I play it so I'm still in the picture? Last time we talked (last week) I mentioned maybe dinner this week, but that was before I found out what was going on, so I haven't talked to her since. Should I just casually text her and keep the conversation going? Or just stop all communication and hope to connect later?