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    sak21 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I recently broke up ..NEED HELP..PLEASE READ!

    Hi guys..i ll make it short ..6 months ago i start chatting on twitter with this girl and after a month we went out for a drink.All went well(i was cocky an funny and that stuff).She really liked me and told her friends about it.During the summer i bumped into some financial difficulties and start losing my confidense.She was very supportive and even paid for my drinks and (you get the idea)
    I was slowly decline into depression cause of the money issue.
    Our sex life was going downhill i didnt even want to have sex with her and when i tried i couldn turn on(you get the idea...again)
    She told me that she feels that she couldnt turned me on but i declined the fact saying that it all comes from my state of mind.
    I was getting too clingy depandable,jealous and all that 'B' stuff.
    The last two weeks before the break she was distand, refusing to talk about the future etc..The last week i got her reading a message and when i asked about it she refused to tell saying in a rather frustrated way that she loved me and when i insested she got a little angry..
    The same week she broke up with me saying by the phone that 'we have to talk' i decline and then she told me that she didnt feel the same way..i then said 'ok the end' in an angry manner and hang up the phone.
    Her friends told me that she looked not ok and convisted me to call her one week after the break up .she told me that she started to fell this way 2 months prior the break up and gradually losing 'that feeling'
    i explained why i was like this and she replied that she couldnt support me anymore because i drag her down too..I except her view on things and adviced her not to go on her ex, that treated her badly but to find someone new..i also told her that i was going to block her from fb and twitter..she understood it and agreed.
    i had NC for 17 days after our last call.I
    texted her cause my nephew was going to visit the theater she works, to see a show.I told her to take care of him and add 'miss you little brat'.she texted back that she even considering give him autographs from the actors.. i replied to call me when she gets home to tell her about a thing that she will make her happy.She did call me i didnt answer and called her back 2 hours later to tell that i got the job i was after and that i feel like a man again.i acted happy but kept the phone long..(my fault..)finnaly i told her to have a drink at the weekend..
    The same day i unblocked her from fb.I DIDNT call her.Insted a went out with some friends of mine (female)and have a good time at a club..i posted my pics on fb along with other pics from a tennis lesson(i started tennis lessons after the break up)with some girls..
    that is yesterday..if you want me to clarify something for you i will ..!!!WHAT TO DO NEXT???PLEASE HELP..!!
    Last edited by sak21; 11-25-2013 at 12:27 AM. Reason: wrong typing

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    HardRock is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I recently broke up ..NEED HELP..PLEASE READ!

    Look! You handled things the wrong way.its going to take sometime to really get back in.am talking specifically about rewiring core attraction.eithers ways you need to get at it immediately.Dont want to become the guy who has cemented in her mind its not going to work with you again ever.thus ending up in the dead zone.may take three days max.

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    sak21 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I recently broke up ..NEED HELP..PLEASE READ!

    i broke up about a month ago and end a 17 days NC about six days ago..what exactly do you mean???when i talked to her we didnt discuss any of the issues..just a happy conversation about my achivement at work..my mistake was that i talked too much..and at the end she wanted to hang up on me..i never contact her again..
    Last edited by sak21; 11-25-2013 at 06:33 AM. Reason: wrong typing

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    sak21 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I recently broke up ..NEED HELP..PLEASE READ!

    come on guys..check my story out..please...

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    Default Re: I recently broke up ..NEED HELP..PLEASE READ!

    Hmm..
    May call her and ask her out.

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    sak21 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I recently broke up ..NEED HELP..PLEASE READ!

    update!after cramming my fb with pics with girls and me (as cody said)after exactly one month from my break up, my ex retweet this :the most insecure persons are the one's who try to play it cool and secure..
    it was her first post after we broke up..
    good or bad?

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    HardRock is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I recently broke up ..NEED HELP..PLEASE READ!

    Going exactly with that line of action in this dyn may make you look like you are trying a bit too hard.Since have contact engage her and run game.She lost some attraction there at that instant..

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    sak21 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I recently broke up ..NEED HELP..PLEASE READ!

    oh!! i get it!!! i ve screwed up..fark!!!

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    HardRock is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I recently broke up ..NEED HELP..PLEASE READ!

    Avoid trying to make women jealous..its salveagable

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    sak21 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: I recently broke up ..NEED HELP..PLEASE READ!

    the question is how and when..she wrote it this morning..the timing is very important here..


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