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    ImThatGuy is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Using the Boyfriend Destroyer technique to get my ex back?

    Is it possible to use the Boyfriend Destroyer technique in the process of getting my ex back? They've been together for about a week so I'm gonna give it some time for the "honeymoon phase" to wear off but I was wondering if using this while trying to win an ex back will be counterproductive and make me look like a fool.

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    Default Re: Using the Boyfriend Destroyer technique to get my ex back?

    1 week is way too fast brother. Best tip i can give is to look away and look after yourself for awhile.
    standard rules apply. at least 2-4 weeks of NC (that means NO LOOKING AT HER FB / TEXT / EMAIL / Relics from ur r/s) before you try to talk to her again. and when u do, you have to speak from a open-minded / gracious point of view.

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    Default Re: Using the Boyfriend Destroyer technique to get my ex back?

    I'm not too familiar with The boyfriend destroyer but I'll assume what it is from the title. I've been out of the game for awhile but take it from a guy who's seen a few things, I always thought negative talk about competition, business or personal, shows weakness and you're better off strengthening your position by strengthening yourself rather than making yourself try to appear superior to others by downgrading them. Think of yourself as the top of the food chain and you are an apex predator with no competitors. Think this way and you will act this way. The danger is going overboard or insincere. Just my 2 cents. Good luck

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    Default Re: Using the Boyfriend Destroyer technique to get my ex back?

    The boyfriend destroyer is potent if you use it correctly, I used it on an old ex about a year back and it worked beautifully. Remember, No contact for at least a month. Use this time to improve yourself: Buy some new clothes, hit the gym, go out with your friends, make new friends. The best advice I can give is post as much as you can on Facebook about how much fun you're having. A little jealousy goes a looong way and she'll wonder why you're having so much fun without her. Good luck man!

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    Default Re: Using the Boyfriend Destroyer technique to get my ex back?

    I agree with MIpride, sound advice.

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    Default Re: Using the Boyfriend Destroyer technique to get my ex back?

    it depends on how youve handled the situation up till now.

    if you are known as a jealous guy to her, itll look fake

    if you have been calm and cool in that area, it should work fine

    if you HAVE given her the impression that youre jealous, insecure about other guys, etc, then the first step is a decent time of NC, followed by displaying subtle changes that allow you to build up into the bf destroyer mentality in her eyes. be more confident, be more attractive, tell her it was for the best and you hope shes happy, he seems like a great guy etc.

    also, you say its been a week, fair warning: the honeymoon phase can last for months and months. I'm currently at month 4 of no contact with my ex, and month 13 of them being in honeymoon phase, bout ready to give up.


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