Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 4 of 4
  1. #1
    PUcowboy's Avatar
    PUcowboy is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 423, Level: 8
    Level completed: 46%, Points required for next Level: 27
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered250 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jul 2013
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    92
    Points
    423
    Level
    8
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    26

    Exclamation I broke up with her, what to do now!

    Well guys! I haven't been on here for a while so Ill just make it short.... ish. I have had a pretty good run this semester, however just recently I have lost my way. I dated this girl two years ago, best gf I have ever had, did everything for me. Anyway I was dumb and got annoyed with her, I was immature, wanting to party all the time. Since then, she has dated a couple guys, I don't know the details but the second one lasted a few months, they broke up a few months ago. Saw her at a party the other day, started texting, she was acting as if we had never broken up, lots of smileys, really into me. We hang out a few times, go to dinner, watch movies until we fall asleep, then she asks if I am going to my place or staying with her, so I ask what she thinks, she says whatever you want. I stay, we fall asleep. This morning I tell her bye and kiss her, she seemed slightly less interested than usual. When we hang out she is really hot, and then just warm. Like during the movie (some bs chick flick haha) when they were saying some corny line about being together with each other she would squeeze my hand. Anyway while I was thinking on this today, I text her asking what she had going tomorrow, she says oh I have to study sorry. Then sends a long message after, basically saying "I want to be straight up with you, I have had a lot of fun with you the past few days. But I am not ready for something serious yet. My last relationship was serious and when we broke up it scared me, don't be mad it has nothing to do with you" I said no problem, she was surprised I was understanding, then I said THIS "I understand, I do want to keep talking though" NO ANSWER YET! So guys, Ive LOST MY GAME, need to sharpen my skills, and I am ready for a serious relationship with her again, what do I do?

  2. #2
    cdharders's Avatar
    cdharders is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 4,074, Level: 40
    Level completed: 62%, Points required for next Level: 76
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social1000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Location
    Austin
    Posts
    569
    Points
    4,074
    Level
    40
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    192

    Default Re: I broke up with her, what to do now!

    Just talk. Do not verbalize everything. There is no need. Words are fickle anyhow. You need to have sex with her. Also, stop asking her permission on everything. She will not respond to you if you keep asking her permission. It's unattractive. Having sex with her is the most important piece of advice I have.

    Ideally, make her cum and you not cum the first time if you want her to get uber-attached.
    The Official Tinder Playbook--> http://conquerdatingapps.co m <--Stop swiping, start hooking up

  3. #3
    aff219 is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 2,395, Level: 31
    Level completed: 64%, Points required for next Level: 55
    Overall activity: 10.5%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered1000 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Oct 2013
    Posts
    30
    Points
    2,395
    Level
    31
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    101

    Default Re: I broke up with her, what to do now!

    easy situation imo.

    cool your jets for a few days, respond if she contacts you but just be friendly and fun, don't push -at all-

    the -only- mistake you made was your reply when she said the nothing serious thing. you should have just said "thats fine, i'm just enjoying getting to know each other again anyway" or something to that effect.

    after a few days she will probably contact you, if not, after 3-4 days get in touch/run into her, chit chat, smile, and do exactly what youve been doing (maybe a little less Kino)

    simple push/pull method here to get her motor turning again

  4. #4
    PUcowboy's Avatar
    PUcowboy is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 423, Level: 8
    Level completed: 46%, Points required for next Level: 27
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    7 days registered250 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jul 2013
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    92
    Points
    423
    Level
    8
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    26

    Default Re: I broke up with her, what to do now!

    Thanks guys, yall had great advice. Unfortunately, I didn't get on after all this haha. But anyway, an update! I didn't text her at all after that conversation, but one of my friends is friends with her good friend, and found out she had turned into a little tramp since we had dated. She always needs attention, and was having a guy stay with her that weekend, telling her friend "you probably wont want to stay with me this weekend, not even in the other room" haha, it was a painful but good eye opener for me. Anyway, I have finally seen this as a good fresh start, so I am cutting all ties to the town I am in since I am moving in January 3 hours away to start my student teaching. Anyway I made a dating profile on POF, I plan on meeting new girls in the area there off of it at first. Any online dating tips? I have a bunch of good pictures of me doing things with friends and out and about (no selfies or loner pictures) all the pictures I am either hunting or out at my universities events or at a party. I only included one picture of me and one of my good friends (that's a girl) and she is attractive, I have found this has given me better results. What are good openers? I have been mildly successful with getting girls to respond and have gotten a few numbers, however after I get their numbers I have a problem getting them to meet up, they are always busy or their friend is coming into town and they cant meet up. Any way I can sharpen the online stuff? Im not too familiar with it, anything helps!


Similar Threads

  1. i broke up
    By BigD80 in forum General Questions
    Replies: 30
    Last Thread: 11-04-2013, 04:30 PM
  2. Neighbor HB8 broke up with the BF
    By seanlee in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 05-06-2013, 11:04 AM
  3. She just broke up with her bf
    By Gmin23 in forum General Questions
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 11-29-2012, 10:59 PM
  4. broke up after 4 yrs, need some help
    By mustang06 in forum How To Get Your Ex Back
    Replies: 22
    Last Thread: 06-29-2012, 06:25 PM
  5. Just broke up with ex recently
    By El_Draque in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 4
    Last Thread: 07-13-2010, 02:02 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com