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    JapieKrekel is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default To game or to gentleman?

    Hey all, my first posting here...

    My story is a bit different.
    Last year during a summer university program I met a HB. Ofc she had a bf already but during the program I used (at that time unconscious) PUA tricks to attract her. I had in mind that it was just a holidays affair but after returning back to our countries in Europe, she contacted me through whatsapp. From the beginning we seemed to match perfectly on every possible area, sexually, emotionally, spiritually, mentally; just in every possible way. By listening to her relationship problems using the Boyfriend Destroyer (thanks for the read!), she completely fell for me and left her bf to start a long distance relationship with me. Unfortunately due to stress where we should settle after graduating she wanted to have a periodic break up. Still we had intense contact, however during this period I was acting like a complete Beta. Still somehow she really appreciated this side of me (seeing this "soft side" of me, made her think Im not one kind of random asshole) Still after some time I realized I needed a NC period and blocked her on every medium.

    I knew she had moved to New York to persue a musical career with her sister. Two months after the NC I contacted her for her birthday. She was incredibly happy to hear me and we caught up like it was back in the old days. However it appeared she was together with this new guy in New York. Still we remained to have contact where I still was acting kind of beta because I wanted her back. Still my ex seems to have feelings for me which she has expressed several times during our phone talks.
    Now she is back in Europe to visit her parents for Christmas. She contacted me to let me know that she booked her flight back to New York through Amsterdam (where I live) and that we really should meet.
    Now I have this meeting planned with her, where I have 3.5 hours at the airport with her, Just to make clear I want her back for LTR, now my question is how to approach this meeting? In which way can I plant this seed the most efficient? Should I treat her like a absolute gentleman, with the danger of showing my neediness? Or should I game her like its a casual date, with the danger of making her feel like its not as exclusive as it used to be?

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    Hotel Yorba is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: To game or to gentleman?

    Why not be the best of both worlds? Be confident like a gentlemen. keep things light and funny, you don't want to ruin your reconnection by bringing up past relationship issues. If she brings it up then you can talk about it but ONLY if she brings it up. dhv and try to let her do most of the talking.

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    JapieKrekel is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: To game or to gentleman?

    Thanks for your advice, sounds like a very solid approach.
    Suppose everything works out well, how should I proceed afterwards when she returns to NY? Should I start a NC period again or should I feed her more with nice contacts... Im kind of confused here as you can notice

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    Default Re: To game or to gentleman?

    You don't need to go No contact unless things go a little south. I would wait a few days before contacting. And when you do dont tell her you miss her, don't ask when you can see her again at first because you don't want to sound needy. Always be upbeat and confident...When she asks what youve been up to say youve been out doing fun things with your friends. Even if you werent...you want to sound like you're having the time of your life while she is stuck in NY.


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