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    Default Help with ideas to re initiate contact

    Long story shirt my ex and I broke up about 5 months ago and is been pretty much no contact after I found out she had sex with another guy (who she's with now) a week after we broke up. She has me blocked on facebook and I don't have her number. I do have her aunts number and I goto school with her brother but I have too much pride to use them. I want to "run into her" and somehow start a "frienship" and show her the new me and reattract her while I figure out what I want. I just get annoyed with other women so I just want to be able to compare personalities while I decide what I want. I also want control over our interactions , you know what I mean? Right now is in hrs and I want it in mine. If it turns out that's what I want we'll get back together but right now I need help finding the best way to reestablish contact. She loves with her current boyfriend in another town where I hhave a friend and she goes to parties so I was thinking of that our doing a little detective work four when she visits her mom and just happen to walk by with a friend while she's there. I want to be able to play it off the most casually I can without her knowing I planned or run in. Any help guys?

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    Default Re: Help with ideas to re initiate contact

    Hey man,

    Sometimes when you have an elaborate plan it doesn't work out and I can see a whole host of potential problems trying to engineer bumping into her 'accidentally'.

    If you are determined to re-initiate contact, can you not come up with a legitimate reason to get her number from her brother? Or just tell her brother you were asking how she was doing and ask him to say hello.

    Personally I advise against this - she's 5 months into a relationship and staying with the new guy - probably still in honeymoon phase so the timing isn't working in your favour. I would leave it for at least another month to see if she contacts and also see if you still feel the same.

    Or, you could start saving for a private detective. I hear that guy Magnum is pretty good... Cool Moustache too. (Magnum that is, not your ex! Lol). Sorry, just playing bro - no offence - just trying to make light of the situation - life is just one big game and its easier if you can laugh about it. Ya feel me?

    Good luck man and keep us posted.

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    Default Re: Help with ideas to re initiate contact

    Why would you want to "meet up" with a lady that cheated on you in a relationship?

    The only reason any guy should ever do that is to grudge fark her. She cheated, dude!

    BUT... If you want to get her back. You need to make it known she made a horrible mistake.. Hang around her friends "unintentionally " with women hotter than she. This will get back to her, believe me it will.

    I'd also suggest looking at becoming a newer more attractive you, before "accidentally" running into her. Also, let her have time to get over her feelings. Women have a switch, dude. Once it is switched, they are gone. Almost nothing a guy can say or do will get them back. From your comment on "being blocked from her Facebook", you flipped her switch somewhere.

    EDIT: I just re-read your post:

    Okay, you have become improved since being with her. Be careful with your "detective" work. From a girl's point of view, that means stalker!
    Soft talkin' with a rap so sweet, the ladies call him the candy wrapper!

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    Default Re: Help with ideas to re initiate contact

    I didnt notice any replies to this thread until now, but she did unblock me today and I wrote about it in another thread. I haven't tried contacting her or anything, although I still talk to her little brother a lot to keep that gateway open. She didn't "cheat" but she did go and fark the other dude in an extremely short amount of time (in my opinion) after the break up, a week is short to me. Anyway, my pride is really stopping me from attempting to contact her through a message, I really want it to be in person but I'm not sure if that will happen. Last time I contacted her asking how her cousin was about 5 or months ago she blocked me without replying so I don't know what I'd do different now. I also don't want to send a friend request, again my pride getting in the way. Thoughts guys?


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