Long story shirt my ex and I broke up about 5 months ago and is been pretty much no contact after I found out she had sex with another guy (who she's with now) a week after we broke up. She has me blocked on facebook and I don't have her number. I do have her aunts number and I goto school with her brother but I have too much pride to use them. I want to "run into her" and somehow start a "frienship" and show her the new me and reattract her while I figure out what I want. I just get annoyed with other women so I just want to be able to compare personalities while I decide what I want. I also want control over our interactions , you know what I mean? Right now is in hrs and I want it in mine. If it turns out that's what I want we'll get back together but right now I need help finding the best way to reestablish contact. She loves with her current boyfriend in another town where I hhave a friend and she goes to parties so I was thinking of that our doing a little detective work four when she visits her mom and just happen to walk by with a friend while she's there. I want to be able to play it off the most casually I can without her knowing I planned or run in. Any help guys?