I'll lay it on you and I won't be modest, so I can cut the shit and get to the point - I'm a good looking guy. I have a dream of being a professional MMA fighter and I'm damn good at grappling (god damn, does this help in the bedroom).
I work at a 5 star restaurant and the girls are FINE. I'm friends with a lot of them, but recently I've been seeing this 18 yr old hostess. We've been on 3 dates... from the first date, we've made out hard, second date we did MDMA together and slept in my bed and talked for like 5+ hours on a deep level, and the third date, we split a box of wine and farked like animals... She LOVED it. Every minute of it.
Pretty much, my value is high in her eyes. Recently, I've been wanting to get more serious with her and I made the move of asking her to be exclusive with me, and in return I'd be exclusive with her and telling her that I like her (because I do, but fark that's AFC). I think the drugs and the sex made me believe that she was in love with me and I know now that I simply fooled myself. She instantly got turned off and told me that we can only be friends now.
Her text said,
"As much fun as friends with benefits is, especialy with you because the friend aspect is actually there and the benefits are SO farkIN GOOD, it never ends well. In a way, our personalities mesh so well and you're super interesting idk... but at the core, I think we're too different. Would you consider yourself an alpha male? I know I would. But that's not always a good thing... We need to stop this, I do want to talk with you still... etc... LJBF" Blah blah blah.
I responded with,
"I'm not going to give you the satisfaction of talking with me, if that's how you feel. You really aren't worth my time. I like you, but I don't love you and I will find someone to replace you, sooner than later... You're a good person, but a girl nonetheless - you don't know what you want. I don't blame you, that's how girls are. I played my hand too early and got burned, but as far as I am concerned, this is only a game. I fold. Lose my digits."
Then she went on about some stuff like she has absolutely no regrets and that I'm awesome and the sex is amazing, but no, and I told her to stop messaging me.
I have a work party coming up in two weeks... and the work parties are always notorious for people getting sloppy... I was considering just talking to other girls from work (I mean, what else is there) and possibly trying to hit her up later that night. I'm gunna cut off contact until then... Show her that she really is just an option that I wanted.
I was considering going up to her if she ends up grinding against another dude and just kissing her in front of him... I'm not afraid of the consequences... Is this an alpha move, or is this stupid as fark?
Thanks for the advice, guys.