Basically split up with my gf of 2 1/2 years. She said she loves me but isn't in love anymore. A couple hours later at night she told me she was sorry and was hoping I was okay. I said I'm okay and asked if she was okay. She said no and called me crying.
She said she is afraid of losing me and wants to be sure she wants to be with me if we decide to make it work. She said she thought of me with someone else, no being with me and no holding me and seeing me. She said she was afraid of losing me. She told me that she was feeling like she made a mistake and I said maybe we should take some space. And she agreed space would be perfect for her to clear her head. We are going to a close friends bday on Friday so I can't avoid that. But I said after that we will go back to taking space and she agreed.
Am I playing this no contact thing right? The fact that she is already questioning her decision seems good to me. Also, what do I do when she messages me?
She's posting a bunch of stuff of depressing love songs every where like on twitter, her blog, etc. She won't delete the pictures of us off everything but it's not her current display picture. I've been trying to be as non reactive as possible. I hope I'm doing okay because I love her and would love to get back together. Right now I'm gonna focus on my self but I'm just wondering if my approach is correct.
Thanks in advance guys