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    Default Cant get girl out of my head

    I started dating this girl in December right after breaking up with my 6 month long relationship (only one I've ever told I've loved her and one of my longer happier relationships) But she was always kinda distant and quiet when we hung out. We made out a lot and she felt me up but we never had sex. After about 6 weeks she starts becoming extremely distant barely texting barely hanging out and extremely boring but one day she says she still has feeling for me and asks me out the next day then sends me a dirty picture that I didn't ask for. We hang out the next day I lean in for a kiss and she shuts me down and says she's sick and doesn't want to get me sick meanwhile she's texting and snap chatting others and eventually sayings she's not feeling well and wants a ride home. Still barely talking I drop her off and go hang with friends. I don't contact her for a day or 2 hoping she would contact me but she doesn't. Maybe a week later I start panicking and start getting really needy texting her asking her what happened and such. Anyway I get drunk one night text her and she replies said she got bored and she was claimed by someone else. I cut contact and its been maybe 3 or 4 weeks and I got a new phone that thanks to some glitch deleted all the names to my contacts. So I texted everyone and she replied her name I asked witch one she was and said her last name and that its the one that I hate. I just say okay and she says alright bye, anyway its been bothering me ever since and despite me having multiple girls i'm talking to atm and actually accidentally saying her name during sex ( thank god she didn't hear me) I cant seem to get her out of my head I thought I was over her but idk what happened

    please excuse my terrible typing

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    Default Re: Cant get girl out of my head

    look,sometimes you have to face the facts, you bored her so she decided to find another guy who could better satisfy her both physically and emotionally.

    nice guys don't finish last, boring guys do.

    some things can't be changed, this ex will probably never come back to you, no matter what you do. trust me, she's not worth chasing after.

    however, you can avoid having a repeat of what happened by becoming more interesting. I would suggest you watch lots of comedy, and read the book "double your dating" by david de angelo

    its good to see that you are talking to other girls, (and farking them) that will help you get over your ex faster than anything else.

    btw, you'll probably never forget her completely, just accept the fact you can't have her and live with it. she might as well be dead to you, just a distant memory.

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    Default Re: Cant get girl out of my head

    if you have her contact it could be arranged easily.Peace

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    Default Re: Cant get girl out of my head

    Im not saying I want her back I know that we would never have worked what the problem is that I see her a lot same friends and such. Everytime I see her I cant tell what I want to do I cant decide if I want to scream and yell or kiss her or whatever and it kinda burns inside.

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    Default Re: Cant get girl out of my head

    Im not saying I want her back I know that we would never have worked what the problem is that I see her a lot same friends and such. Everytime I see her I cant tell what I want to do I cant decide if I want to scream and yell or kiss her or whatever and it kinda burns inside.
    losing you're "relationship" with her shouldn't end your friendship. if you have lots of mutual friends the solution is to just stay friends with her.

    instead of kissing her or yelling at her, try just giving her a hug and avoid talking about your failed relationship.

    you may have to spend some time away from her to get over your emotions, but once you understand that you can still be friends, you'll be able to hang out with her again.

    the only reason I'm advocating that you stay friends with her is so that you don't try dividing your social circle between you and her. it is never pleasant when drama like that unfolds.


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