My ex girlfriend and I were together for 11 months. During the earlier months I had my cool and everything but somehow she managed to turn the tables and I started crumbling and getting insecure. Now my ex strung me along for 2 weeks and asked for a break (not break up.. yet). Those two weeks I couldn't handle it and completely turned AFC. We broke up just a day ago and I asked her to meet me but instead of her meeting me, her dad came out and talked to me. Her dad and I are cool he gave me a couple of useful life advices and told me he wants to see me succeed in life. During the break I started reading "The Power of Now" and got accepted into multiple universities. Also I've been hitting the gym since two years ago and get tans frequently. My ex and I ended on a bad note, she basically told me that we're going to be broken up but she wants to see me improve and see her after a month. I didn't play her game and told her things are better left the way they are. Now I don't exactly regret it but I do want her in my life. Regardless I can live or without her. Am I on the right path or am I setting myself up for further destruction? Thank you in advance for taking the time to read this and formulate answers.