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    shreddedbrah is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default 11 month relationship, I've become an AFC

    My ex girlfriend and I were together for 11 months. During the earlier months I had my cool and everything but somehow she managed to turn the tables and I started crumbling and getting insecure. Now my ex strung me along for 2 weeks and asked for a break (not break up.. yet). Those two weeks I couldn't handle it and completely turned AFC. We broke up just a day ago and I asked her to meet me but instead of her meeting me, her dad came out and talked to me. Her dad and I are cool he gave me a couple of useful life advices and told me he wants to see me succeed in life. During the break I started reading "The Power of Now" and got accepted into multiple universities. Also I've been hitting the gym since two years ago and get tans frequently. My ex and I ended on a bad note, she basically told me that we're going to be broken up but she wants to see me improve and see her after a month. I didn't play her game and told her things are better left the way they are. Now I don't exactly regret it but I do want her in my life. Regardless I can live or without her. Am I on the right path or am I setting myself up for further destruction? Thank you in advance for taking the time to read this and formulate answers.

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    shreddedbrah is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: 11 month relationship, I've become an AFC

    Can anyone shed some light on my situation?

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    Default Re: 11 month relationship, I've become an AFC

    Hey mate,

    Sorry to hear about your breakup. They are never a good time.

    I think you're on the right path with the gym and your self improvement.

    My advice - and it's definitely easier said than done - is to move on. Forget about her and live your life! Keep training, keep learning and more importantly get out and meet girls.

    Go and read the sticky thread by Cody (especially the links therein) in 'how to get your ex back'. I don't know that there's any extra advice you can get that isn't in there!! Seriously it's money!!

    I'm actually at a loss as to what else I can suggest that doesn't get a mention in there lol.

    "am I setting myself up for further destruction?" Yes!! Don't give yourself false hope. Accept it, deal with it and get over it.

    "things are better left the way they are" Spot on!!

    This is just my opinion and what has worked best for me. I hope some of the pro's can weigh in here and either confirm or offer different advice.

    Take it easy mate, let me know if I can help anymore.


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