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    kosherfoker is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Potential future gf let me go because i was taking things too fast.

    Backstory: i would not consider myself a beta, i know how girls think usually, but in this instance, she completely changed what i thought i knew.

    About 3 months ago, i met a beautiful girl studying architecture by luck. We hit if off so well- similar music interests, both into art and fashion, she was exactly what i had been waiting for. I am an Uni student, and i am stuck in a social circle where ALL everyone does is: study, party, and repeat. It extremely frustrates me, for them there is nothing else to live. This girl was exactly like me- there was more to life than getting fucked up. The little things- nature strolls, artwork, she was perfect.

    Within 2 weeks of knowing each other, she was already holding my hand in public, and acting extremely affectionate. It was going so well- my friends encouraged me to ask her out officially in a few weeks time, and i agreed. Life was peaking, and it seemed right.

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    kosherfoker is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Potential future gf let me go because i was taking things too fast.

    Suddenly, within the space of 2 days, she started to talk less to me. Less emotion. When i saw her, she was sombre. I thought it was that time of the month for her, but it didn't get any better. It started to go downhill from there. I spoke to her friend, and heres what i learnt: she is damaged goods, she suffered a bad breakup 2 farking years ago, and now has trouble trusting anyone.

    I attended a college ball with her, and that night she was normal. I thought it would be my saving grace- but the next day i had to talk to her. She said these words: "The initial bubble of getting to know someone was burst when i realised that you were moving ahead way too fast for me to keep up with. At that point, i realised we were not as compatible as I had originally thought".

    We argued a bit, and i asked her for a fresh start. She said that in life, you cannot ever hope for things to be the way they were, because they won't be. She said she still wants to be friends with me, but i was extremely distraught. She said that i over think things way too much, and that i was not listening what she was saying to me, i wasn't confident, and i had to relax. I was angry, but i didn't let her see that. This was 2 weeks ago, since then i haven't talked to her yet.

    Speaking to her best friend, i realised that how damaged she really was. She is incapable of compromising- she is waiting for someone perfect that will suit her every needs to come sweep her off her feet. This is impossible- no person in the world like that will exist for her.

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    kosherfoker is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Potential future gf let me go because i was taking things too fast.

    spite this, i cannot stop thinking about her. She is unlike anyone i've ever met before, and i haven't given up on her. I want to help her overcome her trust barriers, i want a second chance to show her that I can be shaped to be compatible with her needs.

    What can i do to show her that I was the best thing that happened to her, and make give me another chance. I really need your help.

    I know she loved me, there was a period where i knew all that mattered to her was me. She did her architect project on sketching a building in the city- and even included a little couple at the bottom holding hands- us.

    I just want to fix things. I haven't contacted her for about a week now, but every few days she sends me snapchats. I would really appreciate your advice guys, thanks.


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